Is it ok to cry in your girlfriend's arms?

Question

I've been going through a lot of **** with my family and some friends. Some depression and stuff like that I suppose but there's been times where I've just been really blue. My girlfriend has seen me cry... She just walked in my room when I was lying down in my bed recovering from tearing out and she told me that she was there for me if I wanted to talk.

Last night she stayed over at my place and I was feeling really down in the dumps because my family was telling me how my music will never take me anywhere in life and that my dreams will never come true... Then my cousins told me how much they hated me... And I just let it all out. My girlfriend held her arms around me and was comforting me. She talked it out with me and I really felt good being able to tell her everything. But I did cry in her arms... Is this a good or bad thing?

Answer 1

Aww that's soo sweet<3 I would love it if A guy did that!

Answer 2

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In my opinion, it is okay for you to cry to your girlfriend. If she receives you well, then that is a good sign for her, it means she is a good person and truly cares for you. And she did. There is no reason to be ashamed of crying to her, she just wants to see you happy. I'm sure she is someone who supports your music. I think she will help you out in the long run, so look to stay with her.



If you are really worried about it, just text her saying (you guys may live together, but do this through text if possible, but NOT when she is anywhere that you can easily talk to her) that you are sorry for crying to her. I'm sure she'll say it is just fine.



Now she knows you trust her. And she trusts you.

Answer 3

My boyfriend and I just went through a really rough patch in our relationship on Sunday-Tuesday (today). We both cried in each other's arms...I liked comforting him and wiping away his tears because it makes me glad to know that he knows I'm here for him and I love him. Men are not whimps or anything for crying--especially in the arms of someone they love and trust. It's perfectly ok to do it. I hope the stuff with your family and friends gets better...believe me, I know where you are right now and it's hard as hell....but just realize that your girlfriend is there for you and you can trust her. Just focus on the happy times, and try not to think of the painful things. I truly wish you the best, thank your girlfriend for being such an angel to you!!!

Answer 4

Crying to your girlfriend is not a bad thing! It should make her feel good that you are comfortable enough to do so. I'm sorry to hear you are down in the dumps. Hope everything gets better for you.

Answer 5

Shes yourgirlfriend! She should be there for you when you are going through a tough time, so yes, its ok for you to cry around her. As long as you are able to encourage her back, and help her when she needs to cry, then thats part of the reason to have a relationship, is for that support



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Answer 6

dude if she loves you then yes!!! if your with a girl who cares about you, you can be yourself 2 her then she will be their 4 you nomatter what!!!



guys cry, wether its over a game that is lost, or they get dumped, or they have depression or other issues we are human dude we cry!!!



i cry all the time, i lost my pet in 2009, i ve been hurt by many girls, i have depression, i attempted suicide once.......i cry all the time because of those things that happened 2 me....does not make me any less of a man!



crying shows that your human!

Answer 7

I'm sorry you're going through so much, you're so lucky that you have someone that loves you and cares about you. Not a lot of people have that luxury. Of course its okay

Answer 8

I believe that it is okay.

If I had a boyfriend, I would be so glad that he is comfortable and trusts me enough to cry.

Answer 9

Thats good! She thinks its cute that you are expressing your feelings and trust her with them, bet! c; haha don't worry, you're luxky that someone is there that isnt givging u nrgativr energy :D

Answer 10

Part of every relationship is being able to express yourself to the one you love. It's perfectly fine in my eyes.

Answer 11

its really sweet that she was there for you like that and i think shell find it good that you trust her enough to tell her everything,

Answer 12

oh yeah, this lets her know you depend on her. it makes her trust you a lot more.

Answer 13

yes

Answer 14

no, your a man! lol