Question:
please help!! does she like me?
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2013-10-24 19:31:03 UTC
i just started talking to this girl cus she got moved in front of me in US history. she moved in front of me two days ago. since then, these are the signs i see that she might like me, but i THINK she has a BF... im not 100 % sure though.

1) she asked me what i was eating
2) she showed me a penny she made turn gold in chemistry.
3) she was going to sit down in drivers ed but then she saw me and one of her guy friends(kind of my friend) and came and sat by us.
4)borrowed my pen during that drivers ed session
5)went out of her way to say hi to me at a drivers ed meeting (drivers ed has taken over my life)
6) whenever she talks to me she talks in like, for a lack of a better term, seductive way, with a raspy voice

so are these signs that she likes me? im not sure cus when she said hi to me at the drivers ed meeting i was kind of caught off guard cus normally when i talk to someone in school they usually dont say hi to me when they are with their friends and stuff. idk it just seems different than when i talk to other girls, like she wants to keep talking to me...BUT i could be 100% wrong... you tell me.
thanks
Four answers:
2013-10-24 19:43:05 UTC
Hmm... I think you may be overthinking, but it truely depends on the girl.

These are my views on each point:

1) Seems like a friendly thing to say - I ask people that all the time, mainly out of curiosity.

2) Again, it seems like another friendly action/"Look what I learned/did today!" type of action.

3) She probably didn't know anyone except you and her guy friend - everyone does it when they're in a room of strangers and only a few people they know.

4) She probably didn't want to reach into her bag - quite a harmless thing to ask.

5) She might just see you as a friend, but could mean something else... it seems to be a harmless thing so far.

6) This is what may be getting you off track. It's either she has a "raspy, seductive" voice or she may have minor interest. But it might just be unconscious flirting.



Give her maybe a week or so and see what's going on. If anything like #5 and/or 6 persists, just ask her if she likes you. Rule #1 - don't be shy. Just straight up ask her because if she has a boyfriend, it's kind of wrong to do it. But if she's not, then I guess you got a chance with her (IF you are interested in her).

GOOD LUCK! :)
Caroline
2013-10-25 02:43:15 UTC
its a possibility she does. just try to talk to her more often and get to know her. you might even be good friends, and possibly know if she is taken or not. invite her to places to hang out or something, just try not to get in her business and ask her straight up if shes taken. some girls dont like that. just talk to her more often and get to know the true her. you guys might even be best friends then turn into a great relationship. but i think the best thing to do right now is to get to know her and ask her to come with you to a movie or a party or something. if she says no when you ask her to places, just back off and just talk to her more. try to be a detective and learn why she said no. there could be many reasons, like:

1.) shes busy

2.) she has a Boyfriend

3.) she doesnt feel safe going with someone

4.) she needs to get to know you better

5.) she doesnt feel good

6.) shes not in the mood

7.) has something planned

8.) or straight up, she cant.



just remember that girls can be difficult, so dont try to set her off or make her upset. thats the worst thing you can do to get a girl to trust and like you. try to be kind, respectful, and learn to care about her feelings. if you dont have any kind of respect for a girl, they wont want to be with you. so be a gentleman. open doors for her, or pull a chair out for her, something like that. you should know how to be a gentleman. im sure you were taught.

i hope this information was helpful.

Caroline
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2013-10-25 02:37:14 UTC
She seems friendly, i don't think its anything more.
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2013-10-25 02:41:30 UTC
yes, I think so.


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