Question:
whats a good why to get over someone?
Ocean<3
2009-10-17 20:50:10 UTC
with out drinking?
26 answers:
2009-10-17 20:57:11 UTC
honestly hun. think like this. who gives a damn and move on to the next one. don't get serious with anyone but start talking to one guy really seriously and just one. and one that's cute. trust me it works for me usually. and god. pray about it.
2009-10-18 03:54:49 UTC
if I knew, I'd tell you :(



I'm guessing, find someone else to obsess over, but this can be hard. I've also been thinking, what if I tell myself that I absolutely hate him? Would that work? Problem is, I don't hate him, at all.



But whatever you do, don't drink it away. You'll end up crying endlessly and it'll be a thousand times worse.
lindsey
2009-10-18 04:01:08 UTC
Do everything that that person didn't want to do with you. Seriously it's very theraputic!!! Or just do the things you've always wanted to do but didn't have time to do. Go out with your friends, preferably the single ones because, well... you get the picture. Anyway just know that whoever he was..... he wasn't "the one", just a little bump in the road to figuring out what you do want and need!!!!!
John
2009-10-18 03:55:21 UTC
Get them out of your system completely - leave not a trace of them...



Start life fresh... and you will find someone worthy of your affections... get actively involved with exercise or sports or keep yourself too busy to cry about what happened...



And if its still too hard, a drink or two now and then may help (just don't go overboard).



Best wishes...
ily♥
2009-10-18 03:58:10 UTC
drinking only makes things harder! in my opinion so thats good that you don't want that



um. i'll say hanging out with your best friends. or people who make you laugh alot. it takes your mind off things.

and don't avoid what your trying to get over.

i got over my ex by thinking about our whole entire relationship. all the good times and especially bad. then you will understand why you broke up and you will become at peace with yourself. and if you do understand why you guys are broken up then. say " it was for the best" EVERYDAY! ahah.
danty_mea
2009-10-18 03:57:26 UTC
write down on a piece of paper 10 things you hate about the person



try talking to someone else
2009-10-18 03:58:55 UTC
Talking to friends about it, having a busy fun schedule to take your mind off for a while, writing it out
jamarcus
2009-10-18 04:13:54 UTC
Get your mind off of them....by doing things that you enjoy..if you like going to the movies...go see a movie...Get around good friends and positive family that you enjoy being...I sure you had a good life before them...and you will have a good life after...LOVE YOURSELF...TAKE TIME TO HEAL... AND DONT TAKE OLD HURTS INTO NEW RELATIONSHIPS
Jessica
2009-10-18 03:59:36 UTC
forget him. Get together with your girls, and have a girls day!

Go shopping, buy some ice cream, then rent some movies

[no romantic movies because it probably will make you

think of that person] and have fun! :)
2009-10-18 03:55:37 UTC
don't think about him always try to hang with ur friends, don't be sad over the person have some fun of ur own and see how it goes. hope it helps
DiamondXxx
2009-10-18 03:56:46 UTC
Talk to someone,work out,eat ice cream and wait it out.
2009-10-18 03:55:09 UTC
maybe just start doing stuff you like n forget about him?

maybe start talking to someone else and you'll get over him, if you like the other person, i guess.
Annamaria
2009-10-18 03:55:21 UTC
Get some ice cream,rent some movies.

/He's just not that into you a must!/

Cry,weep,scream if you have to..

Then blow your nose,get up,go out with your girls and

meet the next one.:)
?
2009-10-18 03:54:17 UTC
life is too short you should just move on when something like this happens and look forward instead of thinking back.
?
2009-10-18 03:59:22 UTC
Why get over someone ? IF You like him then go ahead and like him ffs... If he is bad for you then don't like him and you are done with that.
Rach
2009-10-18 03:58:21 UTC
cry, don't talk to that someone for a bit, cry, let ben and jerry make you smile, leave obnoxious voice mails for him with friends, find a hobby, then find someone new
...Arael...
2009-10-18 03:54:21 UTC
Get someone else or hear music that makes you forget!
Colvin F
2009-10-18 03:54:06 UTC
talk to a friend about it. if he was a huge d-bag to u maybe a little revenge is in order ;)
Lil' Anita
2009-10-18 03:54:44 UTC
go to a vacation, focus on something like sports or something that you like. go out and meet new people or go to parties and have fun!!!!
Team Cloudy
2009-10-18 03:54:49 UTC
tape a pic of them to ur wall and throw darts at it.
RINIGAID
2009-10-18 03:55:56 UTC
its called gettin on the rebound
2009-10-18 03:56:06 UTC
just learn to keep yourself occupied and divert your thoughts
Andy
2009-10-18 03:54:12 UTC
You just had to screw up the only answer I had, didn't you?
2009-10-18 03:55:40 UTC
eat lots of icecream and chocolate!
2009-10-18 04:00:01 UTC
Take a trip....
(:☆♥☮♫
2009-10-18 03:55:10 UTC
you tell me. please please please help me



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