Why do Black guys totally ignore females with flat butts, aren't we women too :(?

Question

Why do Black guys totally ignore females with flat butts, aren't we women too :(?

Answer 1

Most Black men want a woman with a feminine shape period. No androgyny, no question marks. It's not only the round shapely a$$ we require but nice hips and shapely legs. Other guys want this too and the proof is in the fantasy cartoons of women that are drawn by non Black guys. The women are always nicely built with round a$$es ( Jessica Rabbit etc. ) . The problem is

non Black women for the most part aren't naturally built like this; it's a sad truth. FYI ...this is no fad. Black men have always required this but the Hip Hop era has just put it in the forefront instead of the Heavy Metal / Alternative Rock days of big breasted flat butt women.

Answer 2

There are two ways to get a flat rear end:



1. Never exercise (or only do aerobics, nothing else).



2. Drink alcohol heavily.



Consequently, flat rear ends are usually a sign of poor health.



Okay, women (and men) who overeat have round rumps and are unhealthy, but they look unhealthy in places other than their backside. Women who have a round bottom and are muscular everywhere else are VERY appealling. Jenniferl Lopezdispenser is annoying as a person, but her waist, rear and legs together are incredible.



By the by, any man is attracted to a good backside, not just black men.

Answer 3

hahaha! Sorry, I'm not laughing AT you, really... that's just funny.



Well, not all of them do, for one thing. It depends on the guy. And a lotta guys are into *different* kinda looks too---not just one. He might like a girl with a big ol' a$$... and then the next week he might like a girl with NO a$$ at all.



Personally, my bf for 7 months now is black and he says he perfers things "medium"... not too big, not too small. Lol... which also conveniently happens to be what I am: medium thighs, a$$, and tatas... so I dunno if I should believe him or not. (Just kidding, I totally believe him. He's a sweetheart.)



But to get back to your question, if a guy isn't into you just because of that... maybe you should just find somebody else. And don't concern yourself about what color he is; just find someone who likes you for you. He could be from any background.



But to agree w/a poster above me, my bf likes to smack it too... and I like it when he does. So thank goodness I've got enough for that grabbin and spankin stuff. =P LOL

Answer 4

Blacks carry their excess body fat in different areas than other humans and it's because there are differences in the races. Blacks have bigger butts because that's where sub-Saharan Africans carry excess body fat. Why do you think black men hang their pants and never wear skinny jeans?' They would love to wear skinny jeans because there in fashion right now but they'd look weird with skinny legs and a big fat butt, so they ridicule them and the people who wear them.

Answer 5

It's not just black guys, honey. Some white guys only like women with bubble butts, just like some black guys only like women with large breasts. And many Asian women have flat butts, and all guys like Asian women, so there goes your theory! Do you only like black men? Aren't white guys men, too?

Answer 6

I don't know Ms.Lady but I'm a black girl and I have a wide ***.It's not that round but not quite flat and my man loves it because he says he love the spread.Different men like different things.I dated a black guy who loved white women nothing wrong with that,what I'm trying to say is different strokes for different folks.And of course you are a woman.

Answer 7

this is a kinda interesting question.

i have met many guys who prefer extra small butt, extra big butt, medium butt, and big butt.

i would say it all depends on a guy's taste.

my guy likes a big butt and big **** which i happen to have so i'm lucky.

if you guy is complaining about your size, you should move on to the next guy. it's sad that he cannot love the way you are.

there are still many black guys who prefer small butt.

Answer 8

it's just that having a big butt is just in style right now and if they want really big azzes then they just stick to their own cause those girls got big ole booties. but they ignore just cause it's kinda like a fad now. its' just like when heroin chic was around. and nicole richie would be queen at that time. but yeah just wait for it to all come down. don't worry though cause most females that have big arses have little titties so just let them be in the sun for a moment.

Answer 9

dont worry about black guys, we white guys love the flat but. if they like fat women, let them. its all a proud thing with them but ibet if jessica alba was you. you wouldnt have any problems i bet your super attractive and not flat in the better places. your perfect just the way you are

Answer 10

Thats not true!! I have a flat butt & men ask me out all the time. U must B ugly........LOL

Answer 11

Guys like a nice ***

Answer 12

if they ignore you that means they are not for you ..... when you find a man that loves you ... he will love you no matter what ... some guys are jerks ..... and life WAS easier when guys had cooties .... lol ... j/k!!! =]

Answer 13

JUST IN MIND BABY TRUST ME ... THERE IS ONE PLACE TO SEE A WOMAN .. THAT IS SHE IS A ( HUMAN ).. NOT A HOURS.

Answer 14

Are you serious with this question? How old r u?

Answer 15

because when having sex they wan't have nothen to smack duh!!!!