What do I do if she doesn't see my message?

Question

So I met this great girl that I really like on the bus about a month and a half ago. Since then we've seen each other about two more times; whenever she talks to me she smiles a lot and laughs at what I say, and I do the same as well.

So the other day I saw her again on the bus... She sat next to me and we talked; we exchanged FB (should have asked for the # huh [stupid me])...

She added me yesterday, and I sent her a message on FB about 30 minutes after; it was a nice, friendly message. More than a day has passed and she still hasn't seen my message. Btw, this was post-facebook update, where you can tell what time and date someone's viewed your message, so I know she hasn't seen it (thankfully I'm not being ignored).

What should I do if she never sees my message after another day or two passes? Should I do nothing and hope to see her again next week? I'm planning on asking her on a date when I do. Or should I post on her wall, send her another message?

Also, she has FB for her phone.

Thanks for the help.

Answer 1

Hmmm...well congratulations on taking the brave attempt to talk with someone that you like. That can be crazy scary. I would wait about a week for a response. I say a week because maybe your message threw her off or she is a little busier than normal this week. Also, it makes a girl feel more comfortable with you when you are not overly eager to say hello.



I would also encourage you to invite her to play a game with you on FB such as Words with Friends, something simple like that. No, you are not stupid for not asking for her number, you are taking it slow...and with the right girl you want to me patient.

Answer 2

She may have ignored the message, if she did ignore the message, it's probably because she wants to see you and doesn't want to chat, that's what I think should happen, lay off facebook, get some real life experience, you'll look weak if you talked to her on FB, you'd be a pussy, just talk to her and gain confidence. (No offense)

Answer 3

Wait a little! you just sent her the message and she isn't ignoring you she just hasn't been on FB yet to see it. just chill and let her come to you. also if you have only talked to this girl about 3 times i would say that's a tad soon to be asking her on a date. wait. just wait. hang out casually first, maybe just coffee or something, then ask her on a date.