Should I Give Up and Throw in the Towel on Finding Love?

Question

I'm sick of everyone always saying that "it will just happen" or "don't worry you will find someone." Are these sayings true? I just came out of a 9 month relationship and within a week he found someone new. He guess he is doing it the smart way and not having to deal with the hurt. I am about ready to throw in the towel and give up. I don't think LOVE exists in my cards.

Answer 1

Well right now you might think that love doesn't exist because you just came out of a 9month relationship. But it does, you just have to be willing and open to love. At this time you need time to heal and be with yourself you don't want to already be in a relationship like your ex. Most relationships that begin in rebound don't last. You seem like the person who is looking for the real deal. So my advice would be to take it slow, and when your ready for love it will find you when you least expect it. Don't throw in the towel, your just getting started. Use your past relationship as a guide of what not to do and move on.

Answer 2

No don't give up because you are essentially giving up on yourself and saying you aren't worth love, which you are redrocks, okay ? Everyone is worthy of love, you are just going down the hard road now...things get worse before they getbetter. Why give up ? Yo know you want, need love and wont stop until you have what other people have.

Until then just focus on work, school, friends even harder and spend lots of time out of the house so you are too exhausted to think about being alone when you come in. Maybe you might meet a nice guy while getting out ? Nothing like the seed of new love,embrace it ! =D

Answer 3

How old are you? Yeah you are hurt but 9 months isn't terribly long. Men and women just deal with heartbreak differently. Men like to get right back in, but that doesn't mean we've healed either. Women sit around and think of the torment.



Him being with someone else has nothing to do with you. And yes those sayings are BS. Sometimes the right person finds you and sometimes you find them, but things don't just happen.

Answer 4

Don't give up there will be someone out there who will also be on the verge of giving up who might be really into you just give it sometime maybe go out to the city and find lots of ways you can socialise and maybe find your next boyfriend who will love everythig about you



thanks hope I helped!

Answer 5

Yes, Give up. The only person you will find to love you unconditionally in the world is you only. Others just give you illuision of love

Answer 6

It depends on how old you are, but I'm about the same way.