If you give a girl your number and she doesn’t call you or message you does that mean she’s not interested?

Question

I was at work and seen a beautiful girl, the most beautiful in the building hands down. I work as a forklift and I seen her in a department where I drop off my pallets. I walked up to her and asked her if she had a second, took her to the side and told her that “I thought she was very beautiful and I just wanted to give her my number” i planned out different words I was nervous as hell and that’s what came out but she went well with it. I handed it to her with two fingers she grabbed it with both hands and we held hands for a second and she told me her name. Then we held hands as she walked away until we separated. She smiled hard and seemed happy. I haven’t got any message or calls at all and when I see her at work it’s hard to say hey, because it’s a always distance between stations and the timing has to be right. When I approached her I had walked all the way up to her in her department and parked my forklift. Now I’m confused because when we do make eye contact she has a poker face and I can’t tell what her vibe towards me is, no smiles or looks of awkwardness just a straight poker face. She did come around my forklift once today but I was talking to another manager about some work related things so I couldn’t conversate with her the timing was off. I can’t tell if this is a Loss or not. It’s been 2 days so far and no response as in calls or messages. Again in the moment I made her smile hard and it felt right and she even made it easy on me by holding my hand. I’m lost?

Answer 1

Well, she probably isnt interested, but wasnt sure how youd react to flat out rejection, so played along and lost yor number as soon as she was out of sight.

Answer 2

Dude! Here is how it should go, "Hi (name), would you like to go out sometime?

Yes, "Ok, can I call you and we'll talk about it?" (get number)

No, (followed by reason) "Ok, well, I had to ask! Let me know if you change your mind!"

Don't stalk her, don't bug her, just be friendly, smile and go about your job as usual.

Answer 3

If you give a girl your number and she doesn’t call you or message you does that mean she’s not interested?



yes, it certainly does mean she isn't interested



Why ?



Mainly because you probably 'creeped her out' - a guy she doesn't know approaches her a work, tells he she is beautiful and leaves his phone number. She doesn't know if you are a nice guy or a mad axe murderer sizing up his next victim



or she has a partner



or she just didn't find you attractive



or she has set her sights a bit higher than 'the fork lift truck driver'



..Now I’m confused because when we do make eye contact she has a poker face …. that confuses you ??? It doesn't confuse me. It tells me she is trying NOT to encourage you



She smiled the first time, because she was probably a bit flattered... but it ended there.



Let it drop or you could find yourself up in the HR office for harrassment

Answer 4

yep

Answer 5

I think her goal is to be with someone more established than a forklift driver

Answer 6

Yes that's exactly what it means. She may already have a partner or she is simply not attracted to you. You can't make her interested. You could have one last try by sending her a bunch of flowers and asking for a date. But if she declines you will have to move on as any more would amount to harassment.