Boyfriend hid his match profile but has been logging on?

Question

I'm in an exclusive relationship with my boyfriend of 4months. We both met on match and after a few weeks dating he brought up the exclusivity subject and hid his profile. I hid mine too and a couple of weeks ago I went in to unsuscribe from all the emails they still send me... Weird enough I can see that my boyfriend logged in within 3days. His profile is still hidden but he's saved as a favorite so I can see his activity from there. I let that one slide as he told me that he unsuscribed to the emails that's how I ended up on the site. Since then I've been logging in randomly to check and he didn't log in for 2 weeks, up until last Tuesday night it said online now, I checked again this morning and it says active within 24hrs, so he must have logged in last night too. We have a great realtionship and he even wants us to move in together in a couple of months. He makes future plans about us and now this I'm so worried and confused. Not sure how to handle this and if I should trust him. Thank you

Answer 1

since u don't trust him..and he's hiding his actions from you, even when you asked him about it..he said he was unsubscribing etc*..but you find out he's still on the site*..yet wants u 2 to move in together in a couple of months. You've only been dating 4months*..DO u think this is a GOOD idea??..i would advise against rushing to move in at the moment, until you can TRUST him*....Communication Trust Honesty & Respect are keys to a long healthy relationship, without those you have nothing*...Take a step back and figure things out* Continue to TALK/communicate with him..find out WHY he feels he NEEDS to lie to you??? WHY does he NEED to continue checking on the site? Goodluck*

Answer 2

You may be in an exclusive relationship, but he doesn't sound like he is...



Though, if I'm being perfectly objective - maybe he's looking to see if you've been active?

Answer 3

he wants u to take it in the but