Heart Break... :( :( :(?

Question

I luv a guy, actually its the state of infatuation u can say coz v never talked on face but v used to chat for hours. He used to be in my college. Even he had feelings for me, that i could see, but one day something went wrong during chatting that resulted in fight. After that v didnt talk for months. But then i realised & thought of apologising & wished him on his birthday on facebook but he didnt reply. Then again i sent him a msg & again he didnt reply back. I thought that ok he must be still angry. I thought of giving some space to him. Then after a few months i again msgd him. That time he started talking to me very nicely. But in the mid of the conversation, he stopped replying me. I sent him msgs, he was online but didnt reply me. I was really taken aback. From that day onwards even i have stopped sending msgs. But now the thing is that i feel that he wants to talk 2 me but when i msg him he dnt reply. Now the thing is that he has started sending me msgs from fake profiles on Y msgr, he sends all sorts of msgs- dirty, abusive, general, funny, blah blah... but i dont understand why is he doing so. I mean if he wants to talk then why doesnt he talk then when i send him msgs? Yes one more thing, he got my cell no. from i dnt know where, & called me up one day, but it was a kind of blank call as if wants to hear me, & now keeps on giving me missed calls.

Plz tell me what must be his feelings? Coz i'm unable to decide, i'm a vry optimistic prsn & dnt see the darker side of ppl. :(

Thnx in advance.

Answer 1

Hi Tanya,



You seem to be a good person then how come you don't understand his nature? If he is using fake ids or sending you weird messages, it simply means he is trying to get your feelings. I don't think he would like to be in long term relation with you and might get away after having physical with you. If he seriuoly loves you then he would not do such cheap things.



I would suggest you rather than striking your head against wall it is always better to look for another alternative to get out of trouble. I know it is not very easy if you really love someone and I am also going through the same thing yeah a bit different from yours.



Tanya please dont only consider your feelings, also take into account your respect. See this guy is not giving you respect then how can you assume a long term relation with him. If you are also looking for short relation then you do what you like but i don't think you are looking for short term relation with him otherwise you would not post it here.



Wish you may not get caught in some trap. Please be careful and if poosible stop talking to this guy.



that's my personal suggestion, I am deeply sorry if you are not agree with this.



Regards,

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Answer 2

the best thing you can do in the world is



just approach him some how and tell him when he is alone or not alone depends upon ur guts



cause time is passing college ends relationships end



then straight tell him y r u so scared of me m i an ghost.

if u want to talk then der is no problem in that u just keep giveing me blank calls and offline msgs

do u have any reason y r u doing dis



then the guy will get shocked

either he will tell the reason - or he will say sorry..

then u cna start a new converstions



ty

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Answer 3

tanya u r vry innocent. he knws ur feelingz 4 him so he knwz u can do anyhting 4 him. he iz just a flirt. he'z not interested in u. he will just flirt wid u & use u & after dat leave u. he'z gives u missed call & send u msg 4m fake ids just 2 show his frndz dat how much he iz popular in girlz & girlz r mad 4 him. he'z making fun of u & just playing wid ur feelingz. u should not trust such a guy. if he really liked u he would hav approached 1st & not waited 4 monthz until many times u had 2 sent msgs. b careful of him. it'z better if u stay away

Answer 4

From your very long story one clear result comes....not a strong relation you both have....anyway if u wanna keep relation with him then leave a msg for him and use not only light words but also use hard words ....i think that guy also have not more interested in you..when he get another one then he will busy with her...be careful in future from this guy..today he using fake profile for abuseing u, so in future what he will do?

Answer 5

Tanya i wuld like to say dat d guy doesnt have "love" feelings for u. he just wants to use u n u well understand wat does it mean. hw *** u feel dat he wnts to speak to u even when he doesnt reply to ur msgs?if he hs feeling for u..he wnt giv a blank call, he wnt send u dirty msgs from unknown profiles, he wnt msg u from a diff cell n all dis. its better u ignore d person. u ppl hv nt talked over face n u think dat ur in love. dats so childish. it ws an infactuation n nw its over. dnt fall for him. d guy is nt ryt.

Answer 6

hey hii!!

i think tat hez angry on u and i think tat he don't want to talk with u anymore. If u still love him after all dis then u should have some patience and cooled him down and got to know his prob and solve it. Or if u hate him just u have to give him a strict warning.(e.g police complaint or if u have any bro tel him to call and him warning)

Answer 7

maybe he's still angry with you?or after that incident maybe he's not thinking much of you,and rather is just trying to annoy you...mind you,that fellow really sounds complex.

he's giving spam calls and messages?just avoid him.thats better.if he rlly wants to talk with you and all,let him do it directly.

Answer 8

do not touch the rope please