Iam in love with a girl..plzz reply..what should i do?..?

Question

Hii !Iam Saurabh...18 year old engineering student.(PS-IAM NOT AN UGLY BOON...MIND YOU...IAM CUTE ENOUGH TO LET HER FALL IN LOVE WITH ME...SHE HERSELF COMPLEMENTED ME MANY TIMES THAT IAM CUTE KID ,SHE IS IMPRESSED BY ME ...I USE TO TOP IN COACHINGS AMONG 400 STUDENTS...SHE SAW ALL THIS WITH HER EYES...ETC ETC)...Iam in Love with a Girl!she is my friends since 2 years ....I use to talk to her late nights on cellphone,use to talk with her ...How do I tell her that I’m in love with her?

I’ve known this girl for a couple of years now and I know she likes me and trusts me as a friend. I’ve I know she likes me better personality-wise than anyone .....

I’ve always been really nice to her (that’s really all I know how to do with girls), and she has been hanging out with me more than usual lately, ..

My question is how do I tell her how I feel about her without weirding her out? I don’t want to lose her as a friend. ..somedays back I proposed her..i said I love you...i never told u coz i dont wanna lose you...She replied that She loves me too..than suddenly said ki she was Joking ...she asked me are u serious????????I said ..no i was not..i was afraid.....so i told her that i was joking :(...now what to do ?????? she said i love u to me..may be in joking mood..but she said...and nowadays she is not really showing me that she loves me...it hurts a lot..i love her a lot...plzz suggest me :(.... .

iam egoistic type of person..if she dont msg me or reply me..i never initiate to talk to her...i feel like she is ignoring me....she said " I love u " to me...may be in joking mood..but my question is...How can sum1 tell that ..even in a joking mood..i mean i wont tell these to any girl if i dont love her...I just wanna know that whats going on her mind... she loves me or not? she likes me thats for sure...buty she is not showing special care for me... i gave her a love letter..she said she liked it... but she did'nt said she loves me too..what is this? how to read her mind? ..i wanna know that if she loves me than why she is not showing it??why she is not sending msgs to me continuosly?:(

suggest something...where iam wrong? and what i shud do ?

yesterday i asked her ..iam waiting for the day when u will start falling for me..she took it as joke and answered ..like ..ya sabar ka fal meetha hota hae...i asked her for a movie with me...she said..bajrang dal will catch us.she asked me to go for a movie with her friends(college frnds)..i said no thanks:/ ..and than said i will start loving u when pigs will fly and this too in a joking manner...ab kya samjhu ????? whats running in her mind? ....plzz suggest something :( ...

TODAY I DECIDED THAT I WILL TELL HER THAT IAM DAMN SERIOUS AND I WANT A STRAIGHT ANSWER....SO ANY IDEA? HOW I SHOULD PROPOSE?

Answer 1

Don't use the three words "I love you" as if it was a pass-phrase like "Open sesame" :P.



A romantic proposal is far more than that. You need to sit with her alone, and explain to her how you feel. Tell her everything you are feeling. If necessary, write it down and pick out points from it, then explain.



Don't make it poetic as she's not taking those things seriously. Just tell her how you feel in your own words. Tell her that it's not a joke. Don't be afraid of losing her...because you won't :). Good luck! :)

Answer 2

I agree with all the other ppl answers. I've heard of so many women ending up alone anyway after wasting so much energy. The guy sees you as a booty call, pardon me to say that! That's why he sees you at odd times or none at all. There have been some success stories where some men divorced their wife to be with the mistress, but this is a hard bet. By the way, the guys has too much baggage, even if he ends up with you. You have to deal with a pestering ex-wife and children who probably will hate more. Open up your hearts to new potential love interest and kiss this man goodbye. It's hard, but u'll let go if u put it in your head that u want something else out of your life. PEACE!

Answer 3

WOW!!!!!!! Bro you asked this question every day for like 2 weeks man. I think you are in LUST not LOVE, big big big difference. Listen, people have given you sound advice that I've read in the past posts, and you should listen. This chick likes you a lot, she doesn't LOVE you and neither do you. I am sorry if this comes off ad harsh but sometimes that's what people need. If you're as smart as you say then apply that to what you've wrote every day. You are posting this same question over and over and over again expecting and maybe praying for a different answer. FYI that is the definition of insanity: doing the same thing over and over and over again expecting q different outcomes. Do yourself a favor and keep her as a friend and find a woman that will LOVE you for you. Good luck. Please also do yourself a favor and STOP posting this same thing lol

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Iam in love with a girl..plzz reply..what should i do?..?

Hii !Iam Saurabh...18 year old engineering student.(PS-IAM NOT AN UGLY BOON...MIND YOU...IAM CUTE ENOUGH TO LET HER FALL IN LOVE WITH ME...SHE HERSELF COMPLEMENTED ME MANY TIMES THAT IAM CUTE KID ,SHE IS IMPRESSED BY ME ...I USE TO TOP IN COACHINGS AMONG 400 STUDENTS...SHE SAW ALL THIS WITH HER...

Answer 5

Talk to her ASAP.

Get the answer - Yes or No.

Answer 6

go and directly propose her... Dont waste ur time. All the best...

Answer 7

Dude, you have been FRIENDZONED. She is not interested in you.