Do you think this is weird after being rejected by a girl?

Question

So I asked out a girl after school and she told me no.She told me that she has been talking to somebody else and that it wouldnt be right for her to go out with me.And the next day was a holiday.so the next day when there was school i was walking to my locker and somebody grabbed me from behind and it was her.Then she kept joking with me at my locker.then after loading my books in my bag she grabbed my hand and told me to walk with her to her locker.Then after school she kept touching my hand while on the bus.Then the next day we met up in the morning and she linked my arm with hers.and i saw her later on during the day and she held my hand and wanted me to walk with her again.what do you think could be up with her?i really dont want to go out with her know becuase then i will just be her rebound boy.advice please? thanx!

Answer 1

Most probably things didn't work out well with Option 1. So, now you are someone who was interested in her, so she is trying to be closer to you. To be honest, if you like this girl (before her saying "no"), then maybe this is not the worst thing in the world. I mean she might fall in love with you over time and everything, even if you were not her first choice--if you can handle the ego let down, I think this is not a terrible situation.

But having said that, I think you should definitely ask the girl and be like "so, last week you didn't want to talk to me, and now you are being all friendly. I am confused" and see what she says. She will probably make it clear that I just realized that I like you or she will have to explain herself in any case. And then see, if you still want to be with her.

Give it time, and then make up your mind. And the end of the day, try to look at the positive side, maybe you guys were meant to be, and so the other guy didn't work out.



Hope this helps-:)

Take care and good luck!

Answer 2

She is totally using you to get the other guy jealous. and you dont want to be the rebound guy so, go up to her and tell her she is too touchy and you have "other plans", you dont ACTUALLY have to other plans with other girls, but it usually keeps her away. and you will sound more independant if you tell her that you really dont like her and dont want to go out with her. then she will have to try harder [if she likes you] to get you to like her. and you will be able to tell if she is using you or not. [is that makes sense] i think you could do a lot better man. go find another girl that makes YOU happy. then she will feel shallow and understand you have feelings too, not just for her.

Answer 3

well just tell her that you don't want to be her rebound boy. Just be honest with her. Her other guy probably fell through and figured you'd still be available so he just figured you were the next best choice. But don't be the rebound guy.

Answer 4

yeah run away fast. this girl sounds like she gets pleasure in the fact that guys like her. that means the guy usually loses. or she thought that things would work out with this other dude and it didn't so now she runs back to someone she thinks is gonna pick up the pieces. don't be that guy. find someone who is not gonna second guess their feelings for you.



good luck.

Answer 5

Maybe she realized that she is young and it's not such a bad thing to date more than one guy. Either way you need to tell her to leave you alone. She may be confused about what she wants but she at least deserves to know that you don't want to go out with her.

Answer 6

she might have told you no bc she wanted to test you, now since she is at least attracted enough to flirt with you you should try to ask her out again, and if she says yes than great but if she says no then be straight up and ask her why she is doing all that other stuff

Answer 7

You harm her emotions, so she is attempting to make you think of. Like "did I make the main superb decision" kinda bullshi**. this is in basic terms a petty innovations sport, and you probably did make the main superb decision if she nevertheless performs those video games.

Answer 8

I would go with girli girls answer. Im sure you can find another one that is not like that. I have been in allmost the same situation and its not good to be in.

Answer 9

well when i do that too a boy um well XD that means the other boy i like si well into someone else and/or im trying to get them jealous.. or she feels kinda guilty for leading you off like that. i know i would be

Answer 10

i think she could possibly be trying to make the other guy shes talking to jealous. its possible but i really hav no idea. or maybe shes done talking to him entirely and wants to talk to u and hang out with u.

Answer 11

cashel,



You should find out if she is dating anyone lately? you want to know where this is heading between you and her? Are you just friends with her or more? She seems to be really flirting heavy with you.

Answer 12

Ask her what happened with the other kid. If it seems like he rejected her and now she's settling, stay way from her.

Answer 13

Tell her off, in a good way

Answer 14

Give her a chance maybe she thought about it and picked you. You go you stud.

Answer 15

tell her that she had her chance and she abused it and that you don't want to be used.

but you should probablly find a nicer way to say it

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Answer 16

If you don't want to go out with her, then tell her to leave you alone.