Is it bad to fantasize about other girls while in a relationship?

Question

I've been dating her for a year and 5 months now and I truly love her with all my heart and I want to marry this girl. She means everything to me and occasionally yeah I do fantasize about other girls. Is it THAT bad? I always thought it was fairly natural I mean I have zero feelings involved with these fantasies I've never acted on them to cheat and never will it's just general curiosity. It's not that shes not good enough or I'm not attracted to her it really is just CURIOSITY isnt that human? I'm not a sick pervert or anything like I just want her to see that. is it really that bad? thanks for the opinions!

Answer 1

I would think so because your girlfriend will think badly of you.

Answer 2

It depends on the nature of the relationship, and the nature of the fantasy. Let's say you are on a date with her and you see this gorgeous babe walking by and you stare at her. While not polite this is pretty normal. If you two are in the middle of a hot moment and you start thinking about another girl this is bad. It's all in the context.

Answer 3

It really depends what you mean by fantasize other girls..had more than one meaning. Like you said, its human nature but I mean..maybe it's just a phase.

Answer 4

Not at all. Go smack one out off to pornhub if you want to, sit in class and imagine bending that substitute teacher over the desk and thrashing her box, go bat off and **** on the turtle neck sweater wearing chick in the Kmart catalogue. Just keep your thoughts to yourself around your girl and don't cheat on her