Question:
Why does an ex ask you for a favor and texts you out of the blue...is he trying to play with my emotions...and why does he constantly stare?
vickytzy
2014-11-17 15:16:39 UTC
We were talking for a few months and when i started to like him back he broke it off...and after a month he started talking to me again when he sees me at the same party he would come up to me and say hi and give me a hug like nothing happened...and during the party he would stare at me...what is wrong with him...it makes me so mad he also asked me for favors and started texting me out of the blue a month ago..the favor he asked me..he could have asked anyone else..i should be the last person he asks for favors
Three answers:
Marlon
2014-11-17 15:24:13 UTC
It sounds like he's either regretting his decision and is searching for an opening for a second chance, or he's thinking enough time has passed for him to treat you like a friend.



Either way, it sounds like he doesn't know what he wants, so he projects that through his actions. I'd say to keep him at an arms length and try to keep yourself busy so you don't give him a chance to get close again.
?
2016-04-21 17:54:47 UTC
Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/NC1Na



Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.



The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.



Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.
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2017-02-20 00:27:32 UTC
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