Please answer this!!! I need help!!?

Question

Well.. I think it's kind of confusing.

See about 6-8 months ago this girl liked me from my now old school (I transferred to a different High School).. Anyways I recently made a Facebook because I was lonely during the summer (I hate Facebook to be honest.) So I added her a couple days ago and we started talking... So I discovered a lot about her, and that I had misjudged her, I thought she would be just like any other girl, but we have similar taste in music, and she's REALLY trust worthy.. We essentially talked all night last night.

We have the same views on relationships, we have the same views on a lot of things. She said she'd really miss me because I was really funny and I always made her laugh.
Now I was stupid. This girl had a huge crush on me and, for **** sakes and she asked me "Why did you run away, did I scare you at all?". I told her the truth, the biggest one being I was in a LDR with a chick for about a year and a half. It was embarrassing to say... But no one here has actually liked me for my personality.

So this girl and I have essentially been opening up, and I really REALLY feel bad.. Because now I'm realizing that she's awesome. She's sexy, smart, beautiful, is artistic, etc.

I feel even worse because she even came to a fencing tournament once.. (I help coach her bestfriends little brother).. and she was super into me and was like cheering me on and ****..

Wow.. now that I seriously think of it, I was an asshole. I'm actually crying of guilt.
Story is now that I like her so much.. I had asked her if she was free this weekend and she said she had a party and she was going to stay at a friends house. But she said "But I'll make some time for you next weekend :D"

I told her I couldn't hold it in anymore; and that I was going to wait for the weekend, but I ended up telling her I liked her on Facebook. I told her I really wanted to just tell her

She said "You're a really special guy who doesn't have much; but one day you'll be happy, I promise. There are honestly thousands of girls that would kill for a guy for you. I know life hasn't been fair to you, but you'll be happy."

...Anyways, she told me she used to cut herself and only a few know. I told her I used to be like that myself. I made her promise me that she has me, and that all she needs to do is call me and I'll call a cab and I'll be there in a heartbeat to hold her for hours if I have to. But I said she can trust me (Which she does)..


I'm not sure if you guys know much about NB.. But our province is full of pricks. And I thought she was just like all the other girls...

I told her I'm unbelievably sorry for the way I treated her this year.. She kept on saying it's ok and that she's the most chill person ever... Which just makes me want her more...

Wow I realize I just ****** up alot... And I feel incredibly bad.

So is there any hope for her liking me again? (She's single, but she likes another guy).

Answer 1

Wow, while reading this, this sounded exactly like what happened to me and this guy friend of mine. But on the topic at hand. I think there is hope for her liking you again. Maybe she's just saying she like another guy because she's afraid your going to hurt her again. So to reassure her your not ever going to **** up again, start proving it. Hang out with her when your both free. Do things that you guys both like or you use to do in the past. Little things that let her know you still remember your old relationship and that you would like to go back to it.

Answer 2

This is a super tough question to answer. but ill be completly honest :) first of all she sounds like a really really really sweet girl. and i f i were you, i would just keep pushing for her becasue its sounds like you geniunly love her. you told me that you told her that you liked her but you never said that you asked her out. give it a try. you should also tell her how sincerly sorry you are. although it sounds like youve already done that. trust me, she will come around. i like and all ive read is this yahoo question! your doing everything right- your being completely honest, your told her how you feel, your saying sorry. theres not much more you can do. i would say keep doing what your doing because by what you said it seems like its working. If i didnt liike someone i wouldn'dt talk to them all night long. and she did that didnt she :) just keep talking to her, keep being honest and keep showing her how you feel, and if its meant to be, she'll come around... :)

Just dont give up on her to quickly :)

Answer 3

Aww, :) Well showing her that you've changed would help a lot as well when it comes to her liking you again!

Also, if you wait till you see her before deciding on how much you like her et. Then you can both see what you two are like together like as friends or as a couple, if you know what i mean?

Hope it helped :) xxx

Answer 4

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Answer 5

Maybe... But I doubt it... Being a girl... We don't like to wait that much. Most likely not unless ur super hot. Like Tom Brady sike!!!

Answer 6

Stay friends. don't tell her ALL your secrets and wait. She will break up with this guy she likes eventually. And if not you'll have a good friend.

Answer 7

Movie romance

Answer 8

hmm...it doesnt feel like you messed up. it seems like you have alot in common and if you really like her, youll get her. unless it wasnt meant to be. just keep talking to her, be kind. in my opinion, youll get her(: good luck!!