I thought she was interested in me and now I dont know?

2011-07-25 06:38:47 UTC

I met a girl for coffee last week and things went well it seemed. She showed all the signs she was interested such as eye contact, playing with her hair asking questions about me and my life, etc. I texted her after we met and said i enjoyed meeting her, and would like to see her again when she gets back from the beach.....she said yes we can coordinate when she got back.....

So the next day rolls around and my friends implant this idea in my head that if i like this girl i needed to call her and hang out before she leaves....so i hesitantly pick up the phone and call the night after the day we met, i get voicemail, leave a message "hey (blank) its (blank)-give me a call back when you get a sec..if you want...bye"

So i didnt hear back from her at all and sent her a facebook msg saying the reason i called was cause i talked to so and so about such and such.....basically i made it seem like the reason i was calling was indirectly related to us, and more about business because i am in Real Estate and she owns her own business.....and at the end i said "but i would be lying if i said that was the only reason i called....you made quite an impression on me and i want to see you again.."

she never responded or called back and its been four days....Am i dead in the water here? I havent tried to contact her since....What do i do in this situation if i really want to see her again? Do i text her and see if she responds? do i wait until next week to call? Do i just straight up ask her is she is not interested to please just tell me so i quit wasting my time? I need some advice....