Boyfriend is going to a house party without me! Should I be worried?

Question

Basically, my boyfriend is going to a house party without me. We have been together for 1.5 years and I hate when he gets drunk. I know that is what he will be doing tonight at his friend's house party. He is also spending the night because it is out of town. When he gets drunk, he forgets what he has done. There will be girls there and I am a little worried he will cheat and forget. We haven't had sex yet and I know he really wants it. Should I be worried? I don't want to tell him because I feel like I am being paranoid.

Answer 1

Tell him that you hope he behaves and respects you and the relationship. Hopefully he stays in contact with you, but have trust in him. And it's good to wait to have sex, there isn't any rush. He's waited this long, he must truly love you and I'm sure he will respect you. And if he gets too drunk to the point of not knowing what is going on then he has a problem.

Answer 2

If he is truly trustworthy then you shouldn't worry. But if there isn't trust in a relationship then it might as well not be a relationship at all. You can't build anything off of that. And if he cares about you to stay for that long then there's something good there. Even drunk, you'd still be on his mind.

Answer 3

If you really love him, you'll trust him. And vise-versa. He knows what he is getting himself into and since you guys sound pretty committed, then i don't think he will do anything bad. Has he ever cheated on you or given you a reason to think of him un-trustworthy? I know you are just worried, it's what I, and every other girlfriend in the world does, but there is a limit to how much you should worry. Just trust him and c how the party goes and if he screws up, then you can do whatever the heck you want. But if it turns out fine, then you don't need to worry. Hope this helps and good luck!

Answer 4

Well there's the first red flag. NO TRUST....

Answer 5

Of course you should be worried.

He goes to parties and gets drunk and forgets what he does when drunk. He's horny and girls will be there drinking and they'll be horny too.

Isn't that enough to worry about?



I mean, seriously-- who does that? Some loser alcoholic? Geez!!



And if it's a a matter of "trust"-- you KNOW he gets drunk and does things he can't remember. You can TRUST him to do exactly that at a party.

Answer 6

oh hell no. you aint giving him the cookie, and expect him to be faithful? gotta give him a reason to stay faithful to you

Answer 7

If there is genuine love, any challenge can be solved.