Question:
Ladies: Give me tips on how to talk to girls, its high time i got one?
?
2009-06-20 14:46:40 UTC
here i am

shy
listen to mp3 all the time
never even talk to friends much
i always say " hi" thats all and bye



please tell me, how can i tal to women, scared that you might bite.
Twelve answers:
Confidence
2009-06-20 14:52:49 UTC
Oh we don't bite.



Just imagine women are like guys...except with boobs, a vagina, and estrogen.



lmao



But it's true. We have our own insecurities when we talk to guys. Does my hair look like ****? How's my makeup? Omg I can't believe I just said that...does he think I'm stupid or weird? How can I make him laugh? Oh god, he just looked at that girl when talking to me. Does he like her?



See? I told you. We're just as insecure (or at least the normal ones...with the exclusion of super uber pretty ones or ones who have finally reached that state of absolute confidence).



So....just relax. Small talk at first.



You won't succeed the first few times. Trust me. Girls like guys with more confidence than what you just described. But after a few tries and practice, you'll get a hang of it!



Throw your insecurities away and just have fun!
Dina Babez
2009-06-20 14:52:54 UTC
A-Dont Try Nd Flirt .. Coz if Yuur Shy Yuu Wont Be That Gud

B-Just Talk Nicely Like Yuu Wud Yur Best Mate

C-Dont Try Anything

D-if Yuu Wana Ask Her Owt Mayke Sure Yuu Dont Utter Any Cheesy Lines Pleez

E-if Yuu Get Rejected Then Make Owt That its No Biggy But Dont Get Too Big Headed .. Not That Yuu Wud

F-invite Her Tuu A Party Just As Friends



=D Hope This Helped



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volleygall20
2009-06-20 14:51:21 UTC
girls dont bite lol unless they are big huge freaks ok well i like it when a guy is hilarous and can make me laugh without trying and also u should always be a gentlemen and open doors and stuff like tht and if tht doesnt work just keep trying ull find a girl some day and it might do u good if u put down ur mp3
2009-06-20 14:55:46 UTC
Careful because some them actually do bite. :)



J/K... Just do what i do. Say Hi. Don't use lines though. Contrary to belief they won't slap you if you do, they'll do something that hurts just as much though, they'll reject you walk away and laugh and you'll feel like an idiot. Also Dress to impress, good hygene. Works for me now



I asked a question like this almost a week ago. Got my anwsers and now am using them and i've gotten 3 numbers so heres what i learned
2009-06-22 04:07:01 UTC
lol. that's cute. girls don't bite.



I'm sure most girls would like you, maybe intiate a conversation first, even if it's just hi, it's still something. You gotta be confident and take some chances. Don't fear rejection, sometimes you get rejected and sometimes you don't and then that is how relationships develop. Sometimes rejection from one person leads you to the a better one. think of it that way. good luck.
♫®a¢hƏl♫
2009-06-20 15:09:12 UTC
Don't worry, not all of us bite! We only bite when you get us mad!!! JK lol. Just make lots of jokes and talk to her a lot. If there's 1 girl in particular you like, find out what shes into by talking to her friends. Make sure you talk to her about the stuff she likes. Also you can hint to her friends that you like her and I can almost garuntee they will tell her that you like her and she will probably like that. Good luck!
Andrew
2009-06-20 14:52:48 UTC
as someone who had a lot of troubles talking to girls myself, talk to random girls/women (aka a waitress or anyone really) who you don't have feelings for. Just get conversations going, then, when you have mastered talking to them move onto the girl you do like and use the same skills.
lol.
2009-06-20 14:50:40 UTC
Just spark up a conversation!~ Make her laugh and talk about your favourite interests. Y'never know you might have the same ones ^^
hi hi
2009-06-20 14:56:17 UTC
well just be your kool self and you don't even have to start a long conversation just start out with hey wats up girls luv guys that are funny sweet and make them smile and are just fun to be around and you don't have to have a girlfriend right away just start out with some friends that are girls then girls will slowly start to see that you look like a kool person to be around
2009-06-20 14:51:43 UTC
Be friendly nd confident but not overconfident. Be polite, helpful and kind. Ask girls for doing favors for them.
♥αѕн♥
2009-06-20 14:55:10 UTC
well, Ernie, to be honest you are a very interesting guy, just be yourself, you don't have to work hard on that, you already got it, you are charming and cute, girls love natural guys like yourself, it's okay if you don't start conversations, it's your nature, yet try to work on that
?
2009-06-20 14:49:55 UTC
dont talk,that will be good for a girl.


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