I like this girl but i have loads of problems.?

Question

I don't know her at all
Her parents are REALLY strict
There's a boy she's gone out with who tries to get her attention by talking to her... a LOT. He doesn't exactly like me but he's stuck up, good looking, pretty strong and a braggart. No way i can top that.
I'm 14, wear braces, have pimples and these are my well, stats
Intelligence: 7/10
Strength: 6.5/10
Humor: 6.5/10
Looks: 4.5/10
The Other Boy:
Intelligence: 3/10
Strength: 7.5/10
Humor: 8/10
Looks: 9/10
She is:
Intelligence: 8/10
Strength: Who cares? She's a GIRL! Her kindness however is 8/10
Humor: 6.5/10
Looks: 8.5/10
What do you think. Need more info? Okay.
She wears braces, likes to study and chat occasionally. She is ALMOST COMPLETELY under her parents' thumb.
Her parents are taking every measure to ensure that she does not go out with boys. (She's in a girls' school)
The boy who admires her
would have probably sneaked out and encouraged her to do the same. They went out a few times. They haven't gone out for a while though and rumors are spreading that they have been 'put on hold' for a time.
Her cousin is my BEST FRIEND. they are really close.
I see her almost every Sat at that same area.
There is a camp coming up in less than 3 weeks time and there will be about 20+ 14 yr olds attending.
This smelly fatso fell for her last year at the same camp but my best friend aka her cousin YELLED at him to leave her alone.
She didn't like the fat dude either.
WHAT DO I DO?
DON'T TELL ME I'M TOO YOUNG! JUST HELLLLP!!!!!

Answer 1

My response to all that?



I think you scored yourself too highly in all your stats.

Answer 2

First, stop judging yourself so harshly. There is no reason for you to expect anything but the best for yourself. Changing how you view yourself is the most effective method of affecting how other people see you. Look, all of your self judgments could be objectively true (though it's highly unlikely), but if you focus on something other than how pitiful you may think you are, it will be much easier for a girl to see you as cute, even the things you think are your faults.



Second, don't worry about the other kid. If anything you should befriend him (if he's someone you would want to be your friend). Otherwise, everything about the other guy is irrelevant to your goal.



Third, the girl. Her parents are the biggest obstacle, that could take years to overcome. Like the earlier poster said, you have to talk to her. You don't know her at all but you like her. I don't mean to be harsh, but I've been there before and I would bet that you've constructed an idea of who she is and it may not be realistic, and that fake idea is what you like. Find out who she is. Talk to her. You might find out that she's boring or selfish or any number of other things that you can't stand. You might find out that she's awesome and you get along great. But you won't know until you talk, so go talk and find out who she is! Good luck

Answer 3

Get your friend, her cousin, to introduce you and see if you get along with her. Go from there. Just focus on getting to know her first before putting a move on. Get pimple cream if that's worrying you. Stop being judgemental, both of yourself and others. The other guy's not intelligence 3/10 just cos he likes the girl you like, nor are you looks 4.5/10 just because you're feeling a bit down about your love life. Girls have strength too and kindness is also important for boys. Now go talk to your best friend and tell him you like his cousin.

Answer 4

Well first of all TALK TO HER!!!

Then once you get to know her I think you'll know when you should tell her that you like her.

And if she's not allowed to have a boyfriend, I'm sure she doesn't tell her parents if she has one.

Girls first catch your looks, but if you have a great personality, they'll grow and grow more used to your looks and think your cuter and cuter.

Your best bet is to first speak to the girl.

Answer 5

"BE CONFIDENT" and funny and talk about her not about you but about her. But so far as i can read you know quite a lot about her so use that to your advantage, plus you got her cousin as your best friend so that's very helpful. Act as yourself and talk a lot to keep her interested on what she likes and see what you guys have in common not too much that she'll think your annoying.









Good luck little dude i wish you all the best!