How can I get over my obsession with beautiful teenage girls?

Question

I'm 22 and didn't have my first proper gf till this yr. She was 20 and ugly and also a complete b*tch and although I tried to make it work with her she eventually left me for another guy. Anyway I still feel kind of sore about the fact that when I was a teenager I never had a gf and when I see really hot teenage girls I feel really angry at myself for missing out as a teenager and really bitter and upset that I never got to know what it's like to be with a girl that young and that hot and that I probably never will.

I'm not talking about really young teenage girls by the way, I'm no paedo, I'm talking about like 16-19 (ie legal). I met my ex on PlentyOfFish.com and I always see these really amazing-looking teenage girls who seem like they're probs also really nice and although I know they're out of my league and won't be interested I message them anyway and they always totally ignore me. I know it's pointless to message them but I guess I'm just so overpowered by desire when I see these girls that it's difficult to think rationally, and I just act like I have a chance when I know I don't. I don't really get it though, I thought teenage girls want guys in their 20s as opposed to boys their own age, but maybe I'm just ugly, could that be it? Or that I don't have my own car? I do have my own place though.

I can easily get an ugly/fat/weird gf my own age, so the issue isn't getting a girlfriend. It's, how do I convince myself that I need to stop reaching for girls out of my league and how can I stop dwelling on it and letting it make me depressed?

Answer 1

I don't think 22's a really bad age, as for seeing these sexy teenage girls I don't blame you for asking this question. All I can say is go for it.



If you just ask a girl you like out for a drink or something casual, just not a meal she won't feel pressured into anything and just talk to her. I know how you feel mate I didn't have a gf in the majority of my young teenage years. And never think your ugly mate, if you do that you'll never have any confidence for it.



If you do this I advise to stay away from the teen emo/goth girls, they might look stunning but their bloody strange.

Answer 2

well i would say 18 or 19 should be ok, since thats college age and the girls are much more mature at that level. 16 is pushing it though... i personally like a guy around 21, but that is more because guys are extremely immature at 18-19 and dont know the meaning of a relationship half the time. i guess you can try to look for girls your own age, and dont make having one such a big deal. your time will come and it will make it better

Answer 3

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Answer 4

Im sick of girls mate,im sick of the responsibility and the gender role that a man must have to get a girl.Ive stopped caring about a girlfriend if they want to have sex then i'll be up for it but thats about it.



LOL yeah i know what you mean.Sexual desire is probably the hardest thing for a man to control,i know how you feel you just want to screw them all lol but its not that easy