Question:
If a white woman refuses to date a black man only because he is black, is this racism?
anonymous
2016-04-22 22:38:08 UTC
If a white woman refuses to date a black man only because he is black, is this racism?
86 answers:
Tweedledee
2016-04-24 17:47:31 UTC
If a person is not attracted to someone who looks a certain way it is not racism. However, let's say you're on online dating and you chat with a man who says he is black but you have not seen a picture of him and his personality seems great and you get along well then it would be considered racial discrimination if you refuse his request for a date solely because he is black, and not because you have no idea if he is a real human being or not (for example). I personally have never dated a black man, but that's not because I refuse to consider dating a black man, I just happened to have found physical and personality characteristics that I like the most in these specific men that happened to be white. For example, if you are most attracted to men that have silky light-coloured hair and light coloured eyes, you are not likely to be drawn towards a black man because most of them do not have those characteristics. But that does not mean you're racist, you just like what you like.
Anonymous
2016-04-24 07:39:31 UTC
I think it is. It's kind of like saying "I could never feel attracted to or love a black man" because I've met cute black guys with great personalities. If you see a black guy and he's cute and he's nice and he's chill and everything and you're still like "nope" just cause he's black then that is racism!!! I can find black guys attractive there are just elements of black culture that I don't enjoy. I don't care what color he is. I just won't date a white guy or a Hispanic guy or an Asian guy or an Indian guy or what have you if he's walking around acting a fool.
farrior
2016-11-07 01:54:07 UTC
Black Men Only
Martinique Samuelson
2016-04-24 13:08:00 UTC
This is a tricky question but I'll try to answer it. Most of the time, physical attraction is what first sparks off interest in a potential romantic partner. However, sometimes, you form a platonic friendship with a person and realise that you really love his personality. After a time you may begin to develop romantic interest in your friend even if you weren't initially attracted to him. This happens because in your eyes, his personal qualities will begin to outweigh his perceived physical imperfections. Another possibility is that you love your male friend but only platonically because his good qualities aren't a sufficient incentive for you to reconsider your views about him as a romantic partner. If this is what describes your situation, don't feel guilty, you're not racist. In fact you're doing the brave thing by acknowledging the truth that you're not attracted to him.
anonymous
2016-04-26 04:43:58 UTC
Academically yes and no. In real life, no.

Answer would be no: the girl wouldn't be racist if white girl refuses to meet black man.



It's her choice. As long as she doesn't offend him or hurt him just because he's black, she's not racist. Why do Chinese people marry Chinese? Why do white Americans marry white Americans? Not all the time, of course. I saw Asians marrying black people many times. But because you have been adapted to this different racial culture, you tend to like the same race.



Let me clear things up for you. If you were black guy, wouldn't you prefer a black woman? Yes, you might get a white girl, but a black girl may know the culture that your parents came from like Africa. The tone of the voice that your parents taught you. What I'm speaking is not racism, it's a fact.



If I'm Asian, I have an Asian accent, because my parents would come from Asia. If I learned Asian culture, who would communicate better with me? A white girl who knows nothing about Asia or an Asian girl who knows what Asia is? See what I mean?



It's not really racism..... it's just this unconsciousness....



The easiest example is this.... You want a pretty girl, not an ugly girl. Isn't that stereotyping/discrimination? Ugly girls should have the same opportunity! Well.... You unconsciously like pretty girls better, you communicate better with them and they have better social skills because they may have gotten a lot of boyfriends.



Same thing applies here. White girl has the right to hate you for the skin color. You have the right to hate guys who have crush on you, right? They're gay and they really want to marry you, are you discriminating gays? No....



Racism and unconscious feeling is just different. If she does call you names, hurt you or offend you in any way based on your skin color, that's where she's being racist.
John
2016-04-24 15:38:43 UTC
How is that racism? I personally have never found a black woman at all attractive, does that mean im racist? Nope. It means that I wouldn't have any Attraction to a black girl. That's like asking "If a straight man refuses to date a gay man, just because of his sex, is this homophobia?" Goddamn people...
anonymous
2016-04-23 13:36:20 UTC
Depends! I am a white male who exclusively dates black women. Why? Because I'm not attracted to white women, never been and never will. I'm attracted to black women, always been and always will be. Does being white and exclusively dating black women make me racist towards my own race? No! I love my race, as a matter of fact I love people of all races. It's just that when it comes to my preference in females, I prefer black women.



On the other hand, if one chooses not to date someone because of deep hatred for his/her race, than yes.
Kelli
2016-04-24 19:05:26 UTC
It depends on her reasoning. If she doesn't date black men because she does not like black people in general, then yes I would say that is racism. However some people have a certain taste and "types" when it comes to their attractions. Black men may just not be her type! There is nothing wrong with that.
?
2016-04-23 20:14:26 UTC
It depends on her reasons for not dating black men. If she's an older woman it's not surprising, she grew up in a different time and dating people of color was not accepted. If she's not then that's her decision. She isn't necessarily racist, she may just have different tastes in men.
Nicole
2016-04-24 02:16:14 UTC
Probably just means she's not attracted to black men



My cousin is Hispanic and only dates Asians
Angela Jones
2016-04-23 23:20:04 UTC
Yes and no? If she is doing it because of the color of his skin yes. If she is doing it because she is not attracted to him no. But she could just not be attracted to his skin tone? Weird question. I personally prefer black men. But there are skin tones I like more than others. For instance, I like lighter skinned black guys more, but I still prefer lack guys to white guys. Don't ask me why but it probably has something to do with Derek Morgan from Criminal Minds and Jackson Avery from Grey's Anatomy.
?
2016-04-24 09:29:13 UTC
It's not racism. What, do blacks feel entitled to date any white person they want now or something?
?
2016-04-23 18:51:17 UTC
In the eyes of liberals, yes. But only because they are very narrow and closed minded. To normal folk, hell it's her choice, she can't be forced by liberal left wing ideals that she must accept a black man as her partner.
lovetolovetolove
2016-04-24 20:57:23 UTC
No I don't think it is. Its called preference. I wouldn't date a white man because I love me a black man and everything about them. I find white men attractive but couldn't date one.
The Duke
2016-04-25 07:39:05 UTC
If a woman refuses to date blondes only b/c they are blonde is that blondism? Of course not. It's simply a preference. Why is it a problem to not want to date a particular race simply b/c of their skin color? It's not saying you hate them or you think they are beneath you, it's simply not what you find attractive.



Duke
?
2016-04-22 22:50:56 UTC
No. Not at all. Personally, I get along great with - and enjoy hanging around - Asian people. However, I think Asian chicks are the ugliest, most unattractive girls in the world. They look like aliens, as in EXTRA TERRESTRIALS. How can I get a stiffo, or even (yuck!!!) suck face with one?

Nasty, nasty, nasty! I'd rather never have sex again, if all that was left were Asian chicks.

So there. I'm not racist, I just don't get into/get horny over Asians. I'd never date or fxxk one.
ross
2016-04-24 13:54:58 UTC
No,the color of your skin doesn't always define your race. Its another physical feature. I don't really think its racist because to me its like saying she wouldn't date green eyed guys. But it is stupid that she puts all black guys in the same box just of one characteristic,you never know who you might end up falling for! I guess it depends on how you look at it.
?
2016-04-24 12:30:39 UTC
Yes
?
2016-04-24 00:41:15 UTC
No . I am like that , I have plenty of black friends , my bestfriend is black . But I will not date a black man even though most of my friends are black
chyna
2016-04-24 15:12:38 UTC
I would say yes it is racist but I'm white and don't find white males attractive I only find mixed race or black males attractive.
Jack
2016-04-24 12:36:29 UTC
Obviously
Jaydan
2016-04-24 07:54:03 UTC
Yes
?
2016-04-23 14:48:11 UTC
Yes
Chris Sellick
2016-04-23 23:56:33 UTC
Yes.But she isnt forced to date against her will. People can chose someone for whatever reasons they want.There arent any discrimination laws.

For example,employers cant discriminate when choosing staff and landlords cant discriminate when choosing tenants but in the social world there's no such things as social discrimination.People can reject someone for whatever reasons they want and that includes race.
?
2016-04-25 14:45:22 UTC
She is not attracted to black men and that doesnt necessarily mean she is racist tho. Its her personal preference on who she wants to date. I personally am not attracted to white men and dont date them but im also not going around hating all of them either all because they are white.
?
2016-04-24 03:02:59 UTC
Yes, unless the white woman just prefers Asian men or white men, etc to the physical appearance of black men.
stephen
2016-04-24 15:39:11 UTC
No women like guys have the right to date whoever they want, its their choice, if a white women does not want to go with a black guy its cause black guys dont turn her on and thats that. get over it do gooders.
Amphetamine
2016-04-24 00:45:27 UTC
you are confusing racism with personal preference, i'm sure you can find a better use of the word racism, just try a little harder, get past the point where it hurts to think objectively.
Linda R
2016-04-24 00:03:38 UTC
NO. This just means she does not want to date black men.
?
2016-04-24 01:57:40 UTC
Ooer. This has me stumped. It's hard to say, everyone has their preferences as to what they find attractive. If she does not find black men to be her type, it doesn't seem that racist.. But then to think an entire race is undateable seems pretty racist..
?
2016-04-25 16:13:32 UTC
Yes.. a white woman needs to date every person from every race so not to be called a racist.



How about when she breaks up with a black guy.. no.. no... How about not marrying one! no ... no...



Depends how far you take it... it is a dumbaxx thinking process..
anonymous
2016-04-23 15:43:35 UTC
Its personal preference & not racism.

Some people just don't like certain things.
Hailey
2016-04-22 23:10:29 UTC
Yes and no. If she saying the n word or any racial slang then yes but some people aren't attracted to them. I'm not racist and I'm not attracted to Asian men or black men. Just like how some people aren't attracted to tall people, short people, fat people, or skinny people.
?
2016-04-24 18:40:07 UTC
It depends on the person really, not everyone is attracted to a black person. I don't think is racist, it's just the right of the person
?
2016-04-24 15:07:24 UTC
Of course its R@cist and by the way your asking im guessing your referring to yourself, whilst trying to deal with your problems by letting it go viral.



Its only not R@cist if the girl does not like the guy due to his personality, looks but skin colour as a deterrent is defo WRONG
opinionated
2016-04-25 08:43:04 UTC
I don't think so

what if she won't date short men ...would this also be some kind of racism?
?
2016-04-24 21:17:20 UTC
Me im a latino and have two white girlfriends a d a black girlfriend, i use to have an asian, am I racist? Yes.
anonymous
2016-05-23 19:01:33 UTC
no,the color of your skin doesn't always define your race... its another physical feature... i don't really think its buttery'cause to me its like saying she wouldn't date green eyed guys... but it is stupid that she puts all black guys in the same box just of one characteristic,you never know who you might end up falling for! i guess it depends on how you look at it...
?
2016-04-24 15:58:53 UTC
It doesn't depend on anything guys. The person said "only because he is black". Therefore it is racism. Period. (Or full stop).
country girl
2016-04-26 11:11:12 UTC
No I don't think it's racism we all have our own interests in who we want
?
2016-04-24 20:21:50 UTC
Yes it is.





But if a (proud) African American man refuses to date a white woman because she white, that's not racist, that's empowering yourself and your (proud) race.
Cee
2016-04-23 17:09:15 UTC
That's a hard one to answer.



She may just have a " type " of person she's attracted to and those who are not.
anonymous
2016-04-24 00:26:15 UTC
So she isn't allowed to reject his advances if she's not interested in him. You are saying that women have no right to choose who to date?
?
2016-04-27 05:15:09 UTC
Yes.

Not interacting with someone based solely on their skin color is like the definition of racism.
jolin
2016-04-23 22:09:07 UTC
Yes but it also depends on whether there are any other reason behind it? Such as her parents are the one who is racist or she has had bad experience before and she generalise it..
certified
2016-04-24 13:06:05 UTC
I think black colour is more attractive
anonymous
2016-04-22 22:39:08 UTC
Yes. She is required by law to date everybody on the street.
yupina
2016-04-25 03:33:52 UTC
not necessarily, some people have preferences in what ethnic groups appeal to them most like i am bisexual and i like black ladies but not so much black men, i like asian guys but not really asian girls, i like white women more than white men. it really depends.
Alan H
2016-04-24 06:35:24 UTC
How could it be proved thst that was the sole reason?

She has the right to refuse any date.
Lily
2016-04-27 00:51:17 UTC
I don't think it's racism.
anonymous
2016-04-24 00:28:01 UTC
No its not racism.it's her choice to date him or not.if she is not attracted to him bcoz of his colour then no one can force her to date him.
AB
2016-04-28 18:54:49 UTC
No, it's called prerogative.
?
2016-04-24 17:28:52 UTC
well it should be about personality but because she cares about looks than it still doesn't mean it's racist.
?
2016-04-24 05:26:07 UTC
No she's probably just not interested.
trollOzarks
2016-04-25 11:16:25 UTC
I wouldn't know
Kathy
2016-04-22 22:54:12 UTC
I would classify that as racism
Carlos
2016-04-24 06:34:43 UTC
I don't know
?
2016-04-24 03:33:38 UTC
Of course that's racist.
?
2016-04-22 22:44:25 UTC
No, it's just a preference.
Annonymous
2016-04-24 03:24:38 UTC
Yes and no
Jackdaw
2016-04-24 14:22:15 UTC
esteticly it's not

otherwise yes
l
2016-04-24 04:22:40 UTC
No, he's just not her type.
?
2016-04-25 18:46:55 UTC
It depends on herself.
honey
2016-04-23 13:58:11 UTC
depends, perhaps she's not attracted to blacks
Nikki
2016-04-26 01:20:26 UTC
yes
ea
2016-04-25 12:32:18 UTC
yes
?
2016-04-25 18:01:28 UTC
It depends on her reasons.
anonymous
2016-04-22 22:40:52 UTC
Nope. But you are racist for asking this question.
adriana
2016-04-24 22:03:39 UTC
Races shouldn't mix period.
Phillip
2016-04-22 22:54:25 UTC
fish
Perrie
2016-04-25 04:30:20 UTC
might be due to personality, not colour
justin
2016-04-22 22:45:55 UTC
technically yes.
?
2016-04-24 13:08:30 UTC
BLACK MEN ARE THE BOMB! THEY CHEAT AND ALL THEY WANT IS SEX AND THEY LEAVE! MMMM :D
Typical 90 Year Old Anti-Kamikaze Premortem Virgin
2016-04-24 21:13:58 UTC
Yes, he can rape her and then have her arrested for civil rights.
anonymous
2016-04-24 14:16:11 UTC
no, freedom of choice
?
2016-04-25 00:35:33 UTC
May b
anonymous
2016-04-25 00:28:25 UTC
Maybe..
Isabella
2016-04-26 02:22:41 UTC
not necessarily
Ashley
2016-04-24 10:14:54 UTC
Yes, that is racist.
Tu Lam
2016-04-24 12:58:38 UTC
YES that is racist!
Willie
2016-04-24 07:02:21 UTC
her choice.
?
2016-04-25 06:42:15 UTC
no
christopher
2016-04-24 17:21:05 UTC
no
KISS MY GRITS
2016-04-24 10:11:22 UTC
no
Dee in CO
2016-04-22 22:44:46 UTC
No.
anonymous
2016-12-15 22:14:59 UTC
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