Poll for teenagers: Are you a go getter in dating?

Question

I'm a go getter! I go and get it, and i bring it back! Are you a teenage go getter in dating?

Are you shy about asking girls/boys out on dates? If you like someone, do you say it to him/her? Are you afraid of rejection? Do you keep it as a secret crush? Are you outgoing on your feelings and don't care if he/she rejects you? If you go on dates, do you usually think of a mindset you'll sure make him/her fall in love with you? Do you doubt yourself? Are you bored and just want to have fun with a friend? Or is it teenage pressure to date even if you don't want to? Also, why?

Answer 1

i'm pretty shy when it comes to asking a guy out, i fear rejection. if i like a boy, i normally end up telling them. i try to keep a mindset to get a guy to like me. i try to earn respect. i doubt myself quite alot and worry about a guy not liking me anymore or finding someone better. i like to have fun with a friend but tend to find myself alone. it is a pressure to date as a teenager because everyone seems to only talk about how lonely they are. when you see so many couples around it does make you feel lonely though, but i dont think it should be the only thing we focus on. we still have so many years ahead of us to fall in love.

Answer 2

I have approach anxiety. I can talk to people, but never approach them for the first time. I still do flirt with girls when I am talking to them.

Answer 3

yeah totally was shy and then i realized that nobody will ever truly love u..changed every aspect of my life then