girl advice!?!?!?!!?!?!?@?

Question

ok so theres this girl that i have been talking to for about 2 weeks off and on. Im not the smoothest with the girls so i have made a few mistakes, such as trying to keep coversations on fb and aim going for too long or messaging her day after day and not letting her have a break

ive only been talking to her for about three weeks, so is it too late to fix all that?? just make sure i give her the space she needs and dont bug message her one more time especially if she ends the convo right?

I wanna go to lunch with her this coming weekend itll be the first time we actually hang out and at some point it could get pretty awkward so how do i stop that? what can we talk about? topic?

thanks in advance

Answer 1

Try not to make your relationship solely internet and messaging based. Best thing to do is meet up with her and hang out.



Topics to talk about... everything. Life, music, movies, books, tv shows, school, friends, news, sports. Anything that makes a connection between you two.

Answer 2

Well most people would say to you: talk about her. Let the conversation focus on her and get her to talk about her self.

If shes not really into you, that's probably a good idea.



But you should try to think of things you know shed like to talk about and discuss a head of time. Think about questions you'd like to ask her and just hope for the best ;)



Good Luck!!



&& oh and for future advice: if a girl ends the conversation, don't try to continue it unless its irl, or her feelings are hurt. Otherwise your just being pushy and nosiey, and make a girl not like you.

Answer 3

Instead of going out to lunch with her, I find that a woman will ALWAYS appreciate a meal which you prepare...

Assuming that you are young and probably inexperienced with cooking, i would certainly recommend you check out this cookbook:



www.lulu.com/content/4956212

Answer 4

okay...well we may be opposite sexes but i have the exact same problem as u..when i hang with just one of my guy friends or when i hang with the person that i like i find it easier to just be myself...talk bout stuff u like..ask her wat she thinks bout that..if she says she likes it or vice versa then keep going on that until uve finished...ask her wat she wants to talk about...i find that even though i have no idea wat to talk about that i luv it when they still ask me...yes it will b awkward..u really cant change that...all u can do is try to express that u think of her...an hopefully she notices an takes interest an it will become a great time.go for it.hope it works out

Answer 5

go to a Hibachi Restauraant. You wouldn't have to talk--just stare at the chefs making tricks for you as you eat. go to youtube and look at what they do for you.

otherwise talking about her only. girls like to talk about them,(im not like that)

Answer 6

send her some nudies it will make up for everything you have done wrong



it might even be comical for her.

Answer 7

just chill out! be yourself and give her space