Question:
Weird guy at the end of my road keeps talking to me?
2017-07-10 22:36:14 UTC
So basically at the end of my road there's this house which (I think) is a rehab center thing? All these old drunk guys live there and often they'll sit outside and smoke. I don't see any of them that often except this one guy, who will usually wave at me when I'm on my way back from school. This started as like he'd wave at me across the street, and I'm just trying to be polite, so I'd wave back. I don't know if he's just lonely but it makes me really uncomfortable. It's not just waving though, he sometimes will try to talk to me. He once asked me what time my school ended, another time he asked if I smoked, and I have no idea what to do. I can't really just ignore him... I once didn't notice him and he shouted 'hey' across the road... I could walk a different way home, it'd be annoying having to go out my way to avoid him and I usually walk home with my friends, so I'm a bit embarrassed about saying I'm too afraid to walk home. I posted a question like this earlier and a lot of people said, tell your parents. I just don't want to worry them and i don't really know what it would achieve... they'd just worry and there isn't really much they can do. Maybe there is something? I just have no idea what I'm supposed to do. What do you do in a situation like this? He hasn't technically done anything but I'm afraid he might or even so, it's really stressful because he's so close to my home and I don't like going out in case he's there.. any suggestions are appreciated, thank you.
Four answers:
Zoozu
2017-07-10 22:43:42 UTC
You do not know that telling your parents would only result in unnecessary worry. In fact it is very important. Try to take the advice of people who are older and wiser than you. Young people like to feel that they can reason things out correctly all by themselves, but sometimes they don't. You are learning to use your mind like an adult, but you are not quite there yet. So please tell your parents. It is important that they know.

You are never obliged to be polite to a stranger. Just stop waving or talking to him. You do not have to talk to him. Don't feel embarrassed to ignore him. If he approaches you, just say "I'm sorry I can't talk with you, please don't follow me" (or "walk with me" or "talk to me"). And do not let him try to extend the conversation. Walk away and don't look at him.

Young people often fear being impolite or offensive to adults. They will ignore their own gut instincts that a situation is not safe. And that is when tragedy happens. So use your common sense and be brave.
2017-07-11 00:01:55 UTC
He probably is lonely, if you're scared try to stay in well-lit areas and around people. Is he really that sinister? Or is he lonely.
Alex
2017-07-10 23:03:16 UTC
Tell family
lailaaa
2017-07-10 22:47:27 UTC
Talk back


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