How to get over a bad breakup?

Question

Recently I broke up with my girlfriend, and for over an hour she was yelling and calling me horrible horrible names and it hit me really hard and made me feel terrible. Lately I have been feeling lonely and lost, I try to keep myself busy but I just keep feeling aimless. I try to hang out with friends but everyone is busy. I really don't know what to do I just feel depressed and sad.

Answer 1

Awwh, let me first start off by sayong..Sorry hun ;/..Ive been through many let me tell ya and none of them were easy. I tried EVERYTHING.. What worked for me though, and I dont know about anyone else but I deleted texts messages and contact information of my exs, I got rid of everything that reminded me of them, I did everything I could do to get them off my mind.. It was really hard though. I get it. Dont expect this to just be over within a few days.. It could take way longer. Thats one downside of a relationship.. The possible break up. DONT feel sorry for yourself, DONT feel bad for her. Dont feel guilty. Theres plenty more girls out there for you, Im sure :) .. Depression and sadness is normal and will eventually go away. Maybe like one of the girls said .. <> .. Idk what she means exactly but maybe talk to your ex after things have calmed down and clear things up. Not saying get back into the relationship or try to. NO exs are exs for a reason, stay away but it isnt good to have enemies. Even if theyre exs. - (: Longggg I know but hope I helpedddd hehe

OH! and likeeee the rebound idea haha (: definitelyy! and about her not wanting to talk to you ever again..Give her time, she'll come around..If she did love you, or does.

Answer 2

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Answer 3

ive been in your situation before, but u have to give yourself time to grieve for this lost relationship. always remember that there will be another chance, and a better love! times like this, as tough as they are, will make u a stronger person in the end. have u considered writing poetry or journal entries as a form of therapy? art can also help you. there must have been good reasons for you to break up with her, so dont think about the things she called u and what she said, think about the reasons why this break up is for the best.



i agree with the chick about getting a rebound girl. im married to my rebound guy now! i started dating him (he was the very first one) after i separated from my now ex husband. just be upfront, and let whomever u go out with know that they are indeed a rebound date.

Answer 4

Yeah dont take it personally, when I broke up with a girl once she was telling me how bad i am when in reality she was just talking about herself. Go out and join some type of club and surround yourself with new people. Go and do like aballroom dancing class or something, they always need more men and you get to meet new people and ahve a great time.

Answer 5

just keep trying to stay busy and keep your mind off that break up and feel horrible.

you broke up for a reason ...

if your friends are busy, just try to enjoy your time .. go places ..

spend time with your family?

Answer 6

Two words: Rebound Girl. This sounds weird, coming from a girl, I know. But rebound bf's/gf's really do help, Trust me.

Answer 7

Get closure :)