I feel really lonely tonight - please help?

Question

I feel quite sad tonight. I broke up with my ex bf who was treating me terribly last year. A good thing for me. I've never been the type of girl to really need a bf, but if I met someone and it felt right that's when I prefer to date. That's how it happened with my ex - I thought he was so special, the one but he was lying to me. I don't necessarily miss 'him' but tonight i feel rather lonely like I wish I had a boyfriend. I feel like I miss hugs and kissing and all the other things, the sparks, the texts, the romance... It just took me so long to find my ex, finding a new guy, and hopefully a loyal one, I fear I wont find... I have a lot of friends, keep myself busy, go out. Any advice please? x

Answer 1

if you're feeling lonely,

text one of your good guy friends.

just chat with him.

it'll give you that feeling that you have a guy who needs you,

even if you dont want to be romantically involved.

i get feeling this way too.

and if worst comes to worst,

go get some ice cream.

remember, there are guys out there that are gonna treat you liek crap, like this guy did.

but there are others who are gonna do anything they can for you.

cheer up!

Answer 2

I feel like that all the time...its been almost seven months since my ex and I broke up..sometimes I don't know if I miss him or I miss having a boyfriend..we were together for so long and it is hard to be single. Remember though that there are a lot of single women out there although you may feel all alone. I'm away at college and when I'm feeling lonely I either go for a jog around campus or go to the library. I feel like being surrounded by people, but no necessarily interacting with them, helps a lot. Today I was feeling lonely so I went home to see my parents...my aunt is over for dinner and I feel a lot better. But my best advice to you would be to not date until you are okay with being alone, with being single..that's what I'm trying to do...and if you're feeling lonely try just going somewhere where there are people all around you, it's weird, but it does help. I also fear I wont find a guy like my exboyfriend, but I'm also not really looking right now either..the hurt is still there. Maybe try finding somekind of hobby, something to devote your time to.

Answer 3

Channel that negative energy into something useful.

You crave love and attention, so why not get a pet? That way all the love and attention you give will be reciprocal.

Volunteer somewhere like a soup kitchen or with children (if you are qualified to work with them). You can give without condition to a cause that will appreciate without condition.



Happiness is often found not in the arms of a man, but in the smile of someone in need.

Answer 4

boy do I know what your feeling, I lost my first love yrs. ago and

haven't found another gal yet, and have been alone for a long time.

but if you might want 2 chat to help you feel better ? and no I'm not a

freak or a nut... I'm just a single white male all alone @ my pc just

giving out friendly advice to my fellow answerers. my addy is

[e-mail] if u would like 2 conversate on

windows live messenger just im me hope you get feeling better soon.

Answer 5

i have that feeling all the time. i went out with this guy for only about a month but he was my first kiss and he was the first guy to actually hold me. when we broke up it was really depressing but mostly what i missed was just touching someone else, not in a bad way. just hang out with your friends. and if you feel really lonely then call someone. you don't have to talk about really anything but usually talking to someone and hearing their voice helps you to stay calm and to forget what you were thinking about. read a book, listen to lots of music, not depressing music either, and hang out with other people, try not to be by yourself. i find i always let my mind wander back to him when i am alone. good luck :)

Answer 6

Believe me you will find an other. keep on doing what you are doing by keeping yourself busy, and going out with friends. you will eventually find the right guy.



Perfection sometimes takes time, but not too long.

Answer 7

i try to meet new people on msn and talk to them, just have fun and listen to music etc...



i am unsure of how old you are but if your like 14-17 try www.habbo.co.uk i find it good to go on there and just talk to people, its like a little character in some fucked up hotel.. its hard to explain but its great for talking to people and all that



or just talk to som friends on msn, the last thing you want is to feel lonely :P



If you ever wanna chat or something just say :P



sometimes its nice to have someone that you can talk to.

Answer 8

Watch youtube videos.

Look up What the Buck or a bit of fry and laurie. They always cheer me up.



Seriously though, if distracting yourself with funny videos isn't what you need, call a friend and chat. Thy are hilarious though

Answer 9

awww.

dot worry hun, the righgt guy is out there. cliche` i know..but seriously you will find him. as for being lonely sorry dont really know what to do there. just remind yourself of everything you love about yourself..watch a good funny movie. and you'll be fine,

as for your ex. obviously he wasnt the right guy for you.

Answer 10

being dependent emotionally on someone else isn't the answer. first you need to be comfortable with yourself, and be ok with being alone. it will make for healthier relationships. a lot of problems people have in relationships have to do with insecurities and/or emotional dependency problems.

Answer 11

Well i don't know, if i were you i would call my friends and ask them if they want to go out somewhere and then maybe you'll meet someone there!! Good Luck! :)

Answer 12

im in exactly the same situation, i found out 2 months ago the man who fathered my child and i was gonna marry is a paedophile, its crushed me completely and im feelin pretty damn lonely, hurt used, you name it

Answer 13

Cyber sex with strangers, if you don't feel like going out.

Answer 14

Get a new one.

Answer 15

Keep trying to move on, it has to get better for you!

Answer 16

go to the pound and get a dog.

Answer 17

go out with your friends. it will take some time, but at least you have plenty of friends

Answer 18

cheer up theres a lot of fished in the sea



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Answer 19

who is this because this story sounds familiar

Answer 20

move on. meet other people.

Answer 21

go be a **** and go **** some random *** guys, then you'll have some "sparky" texts

Answer 22

call me

Answer 23

go out tonite....you need company!

Answer 24

u poor thing chin up