So... am I doomed? This is hopeless.?

Question

I am absolutely doomed. I'm 18, a freshman in college, never been kissed, asked out by a guy, anything.
I have had creepy guys text me constantly and I had no attraction to them. i didn't handle it well, though... I'll admit I was a ***** because I completely ignored the texts. But a guy I met once called me his 'n****').
I had a guy start following me on twitter and commenting on all of these random facebook messages and we had so much in common. Like literally so much. One day i casually mentioned I wanted to make a run to go to -insert fast food place here- on my twitter, and he was like, "hey! let's go!" so he picked me up and we went. It was super chill and relaxed and I thought things went well. But I guess not. I either said or did something wrong because I never hear from him anymore.
And another guy i've had my eye on shows no interest. But at the same time I've had guys bluntly tell me "I wanna sneak someone into my dorm", hinting that I should. I want a guy who is patient enough and cares and it's just so frustrating that even when I think I've met a cool guy it never works out. And some guys probably think I'm a prude or a turn-off because I have no experience, but I am so not a prude. I'm just a little shy but I'm getting better and better at starting conversations with people all of the time. But not having any experience isn't because I've chosen not to. It's because I haven't had the experience. It's disheartening. I feel hopeless. I dress well considering everyone in college dresses sloppy and some girls have called me bitchy things saying I'm "trying too hard". But since I don't have a boyfriend, dressing decently and not in yoga pants and hoodies all day long is my thing. I dont know but I get so much anxiety thinking about what everyone thinks, too. I just wish something would work out right in my life. :/

Answer 1

I don't think that it's a turn off that you lack experince, I bet that bothers you more than it bothers any guys. I bet you haven't had any luck because your not giving the right signals, and I believe this is true because others think your a prude when you know your not one. There are websites that will tell you what signals to project and how to project them. I think once you master the art of signals you will see a huge change in the way people perceive you and how they approach you. I wish you all the luck in the world and I bet with expirence you will gain confidence, and confidence is half the battle right there.

Answer 2

You're 18. You have LOTS of time, and 7 billion people on this planet. You'll find someone you can put up with, or you won't. Either way, you're not going to die of not having a boyfriend. Most relationships are more effort than they're worth anyway.

Answer 3

yep you are doomed because you think you are doomed....and I can tell you are a disorganized mess from your structure