Question:
Why does a guy keep glancing and smiling at me in class but not try to talk to me?
Kate
2008-01-06 15:32:52 UTC
he's onlyin one of my classes and sometimes he even purposely leaves class at the same time as i do and once he came up next to me while i was walking with a friend and he just kept the same walking pace as i did next to me,saying nothing(it was cute but a bit awkward).also,once while i got up and was passing the group table he sat in class,he smiled and i smiled back and a girl in his table(when i turned around) said "awww,he smiled and she smiled baaaaack" and he looked down.anyway,he's two years older than i am but he looks like a really nice guy and people say that we'd look very cute together.

it'svery frustrating cause i'm sensing he's too shy to talk but,i personally don't want to randomly go up to him and say hey because it's been going on for 4 months like this.what should i do?
Fifteen answers:
djave djarvoo 'djas originel
2008-01-06 15:36:47 UTC
He likes the look of you...but he's shy/scared to talk to you...in case he goes jibberish or something?...
anonymous
2008-01-06 15:39:14 UTC
First, let me just say this is a really cute story...i dont think there would be anything wrong with sitting by him or asking him to hang out sometime. Get to know him a little more. Its obvious he feels something for you or else he wouldnt smile and look at you all the time. Just get to know him and break the ice a little. Good Luck hun!
anonymous
2016-04-03 13:13:55 UTC
He likes you, obviously! If you like him as well, take the first step and start a casual conversation with him, maybe ask him out for a soda/drink and see how it goes down! Good luck lovely!
*~*TooPretty4You*~*
2008-01-06 15:37:49 UTC
AAAAW! Thats soo sweet, Well I'm sure he kinda has feelings 4 you. You should atleast say Hi or something....Ask him 4 a pencil or w/e. He'll come around, Dont Worry. :D
OnlyTheGoodDieYoung
2008-01-06 15:37:26 UTC
For us guys, it's hard to try to express ourselves. The only advice I can give is: get your friends' help so they can find information on whether he likes you or not. Also, you should try to casually talk to him. Don't ask him as to whether or not he likes you. Just try to make a simple conversation about things. It's better that you try to get to know him first anyway.
anonymous
2008-01-06 15:36:43 UTC
wow can u say shy guy? lol he's just really shy, but if u like him then u need to break that ice for him. teach him a lesson lol
anonymous
2008-01-06 15:35:44 UTC
Hes probably shy. go up to him and talk first. He will relaxe then and talk to u more. Go make the first move. Be flirty.
meg
2008-01-06 15:40:36 UTC
most likely he is to shy but you just need to walk up to him and start conversation and maybe things between you will be more than friends
Kenndy
2008-01-06 15:38:13 UTC
Ask him about his name and try to approach him if you have feeling for him. If he is too shy, try starting from his friends.
Shaun
2008-01-06 15:36:13 UTC
He is shy. You should approach him and break the ice. You may be thankful you did.
soccer_chick_1013
2008-01-06 15:36:32 UTC
he may like you but be to scared to talk to ya. MAYBE not for sure im only in middle school.
me
2008-01-06 15:36:33 UTC
im having the same problem hun, i think he is too shy
anonymous
2008-01-06 15:36:42 UTC
he's probably shy. dont worry. be the first to attempt to talk to him :) YOU NEVER KNOW WHAT MAY HAPPEN!
anonymous
2008-01-06 15:37:10 UTC
to let the realtion go slow
Melanie
2008-01-06 15:36:47 UTC
You should talk to him, just say "Hi" or "Hey".


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