Question:
My bf has a best girl friend?
anonymous
2009-09-28 12:44:41 UTC
I've been seeing my bf for almost 6 months now, we're getting pretty serious and he loves me ALOT and definitely shows it to everyone he knows. Which is good, I trust him and even most of his friends. I was wondering how common it is for a guy to have a best girl friend? I feel fine w/it since they have never dated, she is really nice to me and we do things together, so I see no harm in him having this girl as his best friend, even though I'm his best friend as well. He's known her for a long time & has been there for him through tough times so I could understand why they are friends. Anyway, even though I'm confident and I trust the situation, I always get a little jealous for some reason. Like I think that I should have a best guy friend, which I do but he's not around as often as she is to my bf. So I sometimes struggle with this setup. Does anyone else know how to hand it? How common is it?
Six answers:
anonymous
2009-09-28 12:50:52 UTC
Guys can't really be friends with girls fyi
Team building exercise '99
2009-09-28 12:54:02 UTC
It's normal to get jealous in this situation, but you really should chill out if they are truly just friends. If there's no sexual attraction there and they've known each other for a long time it's cool. I've had girl-friends like that all my life and that's all they are - friends.
Supergirl
2009-09-28 12:51:13 UTC
Super duper common. My bf is tight with all his exes, which makes me feel worst cos I don't know any of them.



It's strange that you should feel jealous about your lack of a guyfriend then your bf and his best friend. Really, it is. At least you get along with all his friends, including the girl bestie!



I'm sure you have your share of friends too, and who's to say you can't meet someone new and share a strong bond with him?[best friend-wise, of course]. Don't worry too much, hun.
keegan b
2009-09-28 12:51:39 UTC
ok. darling, i experience this on the daily. my girl has a ton of "guy friends" aka other boyfriends and every time she says anything about them i just wanna stab them in the crotch. he likes her, sorry to be blunt. if you're ok with a little crush then to each their own.
anonymous
2009-09-28 12:49:24 UTC
next time you're out together with her...bring along a guy friend.
anonymous
2009-09-28 12:49:43 UTC
yea im in the exact same situation, she is relly gorgous too...but it doesnt bother me..i trust him and her


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