Question:
My girlfriend and I broke up and I am wondering if I am handling it the right way....?
anonymous
2012-03-13 20:19:44 UTC
My girlfriend recently dumped me, and I will admit it was hard. i cared for her alot and did everything I could for her. The thing is, she dumped me on facebook. This made it ten times worse and really pissed me off. Due to this, I felt no real need to talk to this girl. She is in one of my classes that I have 4 out of the five days a week. I have never once went out of my way to talk to her, but if she said hi to me, which she did, I would respond nicely. I am pretty much mirroring what she does. A friend of mine that is a girl noticed that my ex would stare at me and would glance over at me alot in class. This past friday, my ex than came up to me and was like, "yah know chris, if it wasnt for me saying hi to you, you would never say anything to me." I replied by shrugging my shoulders and not really giving her an answer. Than when class was over she got up and said "have a nice weekend chris" Am I handling this whole situation right. I want to make sure im not being immature by only talking to her if she talks to me.
Four answers:
jlcodoni8@sbcglobal.net
2012-03-13 20:24:21 UTC
I think you are handling this beautifully. The thing is she dumped you and now shes getting mad that you're not visibly pining over her. If you were to do that you would very likely not get any kind of attention from her at all. Keep your head up and keep doing what you're doing :) perhaps she will realize her mistake and want to give it another try and if at that point that is what you want then it'll be champagne wishes and caviar dreams!
Andrea R
2012-03-14 03:22:23 UTC
Wait she broke up with u on fb that lame sorry find someone else that make u happy
anonymous
2012-03-14 03:25:34 UTC
I think you are handling it the right way. She is lucky that you are even talking to her after all that happened.
anonymous
2012-03-14 03:22:20 UTC
Just take it in stride and move on.


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