My friend keeps trying to set me up with guys ?

Question

I recently broke up with my boyfriend who I was with for a year & like 4 months. It wasn't a bad break up I was just ready to be single & not worry about relationships like I'm only 17 but anyways recently she's been tryna set me up with these guys .. & I really honestly hate when people try to set me up like I can find a boyfriend on my own I capable of doing that .. I just dont want one She doesn't have a boyfriend either & I do t know what to do .. Because I'm tired of her saying you should talk to him or him like I just want to be single I'm to young for all of that & it's time consuming & I know what a relationship takes like what should I do ?

Answer 1

I would talk to your friend. Take her aside and tell her, "I really appreciate what your doing and I think it's really sweet that you want me to be happy, but honestly the reason I broke up with my boyfriend is because I'm ready to be single right now. I just know what a relationship takes now, and I want to enjoy high school while it lasts, without having to worry about a boyfriend too." Don't be mean or get mad, just tell her that while you appreciate it, that's not what you want. High school is a time to enjoy life, to be free and to just have fun, with some boyfriends you can do that, but with others you just can't. And that's not what you want. Enjoy your life while it's still yours alone and tell her that you'll find a boyfriend for yourself when you're ready to.

Answer 2

17 remains youthful for her to be attempting to set you up with a boyfriend? tell her you actually prefer to relish your youthful human beings and in no way ought to agonize about getting a boyfriend because everyones were given one!, and that you want to attempt with different human beings particularly of commiting to at least one guy. She ought to in all likelihood take the hint and quit nagging you about it.

Answer 3

Honestly, I would talk to your friend and tell her that. I know exactally how you feel, I went thru the same exact thing, my best friend who has a boyfriend, didn't want me to feel left out anymore when she was always hanging out with her boyfriend so she tried to set me up with one of our friends, him and I laugh about it because neither of us want a relationship but it got to be annoying and I just told her nicely to stop and told her how I felt. She was totally understandable about it she just didn't want me feeling left out. So defiantly just talk to her :)