anyone have experience with internet dating ? I wrote alot of women & I get no or negative repsonses..?

Question

Is this common with internet dating or is it just me?
Also, all i get are scams- unsolcited emails, russian women
african women. all scams !!! I nhave written like 50 women
and I thought I would be guaranteed a few out of that-but Nothing!!
IS this the way internet dating is for miost guys or is it just me ?

Any one have experiences to share with internet dating ???

Answer 1

It only takes one women to write ,and even if she does it is no guarantee that she is the one that you will be interested in.

Try a local singles group,there was one in Denver but it disbanded recently,and it was active ,they offered many free events,such as 10 minute dating,dinners,comedy club get togethers,outdoor concerts.

The group disbanded because it was connected to a national organization,and the leader of the group met someone in the singles group and is now married.

The new organizer of the group was also married,a conflict of interest and the group was soon disbanded.

Answer 2

There are plenty of scams out there. It will help if you sign up for a legit singles program. If you are out just randomly trying to pick up chicks in chat rooms or myspace....you will have less luck.



Spend more time on selecting who you write to, it is less likely for you to be disappointed. Find a site that has something of interest for you. SciFI.com, CNN.com, uTube ...a dating site, or message board where you can voice your personal opinion on a subject you are passionate about. Build on a mutual foundation.



Put your best foot forward. Put a flirty spin on it.



"Hi! I like blondes with deep cleavage," is not a good opening.



"Your work in animal rescue must leave you exhausted.....what do you like do to relax at the end of the day?" Shows that you are interested in her as a person with a life.



Ranting about your ex-girlfriend is not a good topic for conversation, either. (Surprising how many guys think that women find this interesting.)



Be yourself.....look in the right places....narrow down your selection criteria......from "anyone in the 75150 zip code who responds to "Hey You!" to: "a friendly, animal loving, spirited woman who loves children" should get you an occasional good pick.



Good Luck.

Answer 3

my ex moved when we started dating.....its not easy first step u don't take anyone in they should have a cam and be in the country than you have to build your realtionship with that one girl you think it will happen but you also will go thru alot of break ups you just have to find the right person the most important thing is just don't take anyone in and don't give out your information about you until you konw the person very well and than maybe it will work also you have to think about how much u would wanna see them in real person when you grow to love them...good luck any more questions just talk to me on yahoo messenger at girlygirl2680684

Answer 4

I have been dating over the internet for 5 years. It has been really nice, but I had a specific male that I was looking for. I found him last year and now we are happily married.

Answer 5

Give it man, that only "women" that I have met, do not look like anything like their pictures. They were so huge and unattractive, that you need a welder's mask to see them attractive. Give it man, online dating is for losers and people whom lack social skills. Grab a couple of buddys and go bar hopping, bookstores, grocery shopping, thereapy session, there is where you meet attrative singles.

Answer 6

www.plentyoffish.com

It's free and within the US.

Meet someone there and we are just talking.

Who knows where it will go, but so far, it's been great!

Answer 7

ME!!! I got my heart broken terribly..... sound so true, but just a liar.. I hate internet dating.........

Answer 8

not sure, but did you send them a photo of yourself?

Answer 9

uhh no.go to eharmony.com buddy