if you are a vergin and your boyfriend wants to have sex, and you do to, but you don`t know if you are ready?

Question

i am a vergin, and my boyfriend wants to have sex, but i don`t know if i am ready yet, what should i do, should i go ahead and do it,( to see if i am ready) or tell him i am not ready?

Answer 1

if you are not ready then you will regret doing it.

the best thing to do is wait until you are.

if your boyfriend isnt happy with knowing he is doing the right thing by letting you decide the right time then he isnt the man for you.

dont do anything you dont feel ready to do.

dont let anyone pressure you into it either.

you will just end up either hateing him or your self if it turns out to be wrong.

Answer 2

Save your virginity for someone you know will respect it and still care for you the next day. You don't sound like you are ready, and I think you would know it if you were. If you do it to see if you are ready and then you find you are not, you will probably have issues with your boyfriend wanting to do it again. Make sure you are mature enough for such a commitment because sex can lead to situations you might later regret.

Answer 3

If your not sure that your ready for sex then you shouldn't be even thinking of it. Its worth waiting for, some regret the first time they ever had sex because they were pressured into it by thinking their gf/bf would leave them, or the fact it seemed everyone else was doing it.



And if you decide that you are going to have sex use protection, there is nothing worse than having an STD or becoming pregnant and having to explain that to your parents.

Answer 4

If you don't know if you are ready, theres a reason you feel that way. Judging by the way you phrased (and spelled) your question, I am assuming that you are rather young. I would say that you should NEVER engage in sex until you honestly feel you are ready. There should be no doubts in your mind. If there is ANY doubt...theres a reason. You do not have to KNOW what that reason is...you should only understand that you are having doubts. Your subconscious is VERY strong and will tell you to do or not do things. Listen to it!

Answer 5

You shouldn't "just do it" to SEE if you're ready. If you do it and find out you're NOT ready it would kinda be too late, wouldn't it! You don't say how old you are, but if you are ready to have sex you will KNOW you are ready. Don't let anyone pressure one way or the other! Stick by YOUR guns and do what makes YOU happy!

Answer 6

You are never to do anything you don't want to. So if you are not ready then don't do it. Let him Know that you are not ready. If he love you then he would understand and he would also be willing to wait. A man likes nothing better than to be a girls first. So again I say wait until you are ready because if you don't you won't enjoy it at all!!!!!!!!

Answer 7

First of all if you can't even spell Virgin you are definately not ready. Be patient you must be very young. Boys are not ready to have relationships until they have reached an age where they can think with their brains. Sometimes this is never. Please concentrate on school...sex won't get you a good job.

Answer 8

If you're asking that question, you are obviously not ready.



Be honest with yourself and ask WHY exactly you don't feel ready. Is it your boy friend? Or maybe you're too scared? Or could it be because of religious reasons?....ect.....



Whatever the case may be, only YOU know the reasons why. Once you understand and accept what they are, then you can overcome them.

Answer 9

As you are a VIRGIN.spell it correctly first,then learn how lucky you are.

You are NOT ready for it if you have to ask the world,so i would say,no don`t do it.

Knowing young teens today though,i know you will go against this advice,as you would if you asked your parents.

So use something for protection from STD`s,Aids and Pregnancy.

Answer 10

SEX IS ONLY 4 MARRIAGE. Guys respect gals who respect themselves. Your virginity is the greatest gift u could ever give to ur husband. Pliz u dnt know me but I dont want u to get hurt. Test nd see if ur bf will stand by ur dicision nd if not he just wants to use you. This is a very big step nd you need to think it thru seriously. God bless nd tak kea.

Answer 11

Tell him that you're not ready. If he really respects you, he'll hold off, and he won't be offended...neither will he press you about it again. However, if he continues to press the issue, leave him, because that's all he'll do to you after he gets what he wants.

Answer 12

If your not sure then your not ready and even when you think you are sure it is still best to wait a while to make sure you and he still feel the same weeks maybe even months. Cherrious your life and your body

Answer 13

If you dont no then you are not ready. You will no when the time is right. dont do it for any other reason than because you want to.

Answer 14

Tell him the ferris wheel is off limits but the rest of the amusement park is open. Try the log ride!!

Answer 15

Girl,



Do not hunt the answers or you will never be ready.



Just let you go with the flow and enjoy the beauty of your love. Do not spoil it with too many thoughts about what is wright and what is not.



Try and enjoy.

Answer 16

Don't do it until you go back to school and learn proper english, obviously if you can't even spell "virgin" you're not ready for sex.

Answer 17

tell him your not ready if its meant to be then he will wait like my bf we have been together for 2 1/2 years now :)

Answer 18

You're not ready. If you were, it would be something that you want as well without having to question it or contemplate it.

Dont have sex with him only because thats what he wants. Its got to be something you want to.

Answer 19

Don't let any one talk you into doing something you are not ready for

Answer 20

You are ready only when you get married. Pre-married sex relationship doesn't secure your relationship with your partner forever.

Answer 21

DON'T DO IT ! IF HE LOVED YOU AS MUCH AS HE SAID HE DOSE HE WOULD NOT ASK YOU TO HAVE SEX .THAT'S A GIFT YOU GIVE YOUR HUSBAND NOT SOME GUY YOU THINK YOU LOVE I TELL YOU GIRL YOU GIVE IT UP YOUR GOING TO LOSE HIM FAST YOU WANT TO KEEP HIM LEAVE THINGS THE WAY THEY ARE AND IF HE LEAVES YOU BECAUSE OF THAT THAT'S ALL HE WANTED BUT IT'S YOUR LIFE MAKE THE RIGHT CHOICE GOOD LUCK!

Answer 22

Tell him you are not yet ready. If he's prepared to wait then he may be worth pursuing if not you haven't lost your virginity.

Answer 23

Don't give it to him unless you are ready for something like that

Answer 24

Go ahead and have fun but of coz reach concesus coz your decision willl haunt you for life.

Answer 25

If you were ready you would know, don't rush take your time, he should respect that if he really likes you.

Answer 26

You are not ready. You will know when you are. It will feel right.

Answer 27

Honey save yourself till you know for sure. If he is worth anything he will respect your wishes

Answer 28

as in any other life's situation.. don't do anything you don't want to do and you think you are not ready to do..that simple

Answer 29

girl..u sound like u r young??? i think u should not..if a guy asks u that now is because he doesnt love u..and he doesnt. a guy that loves u will respect u..take it from someone who knows because i did a mistake before and it was to the wrong person....i dont regret wat i did but it was my time..just think the things before u do anything stupid k..good luck!!!

Answer 30

tell him ur not ready cuz if u start doing it his not goin to want to stop so tell him okay

Answer 31

your NOT ready, you have too many questions still, and he can wait too.. tell it'll be worth it later.. you can wait til your married even!! pple do!! FOR REAL!!!

Answer 32

You'll know when you're ready, don't do anything until then!

Answer 33

jus do it if u feel that he's the one.. even if your not sure, it wouldn't hurt to have a bit of fun ya.. provided it is safe sex..

Answer 34

dont do it until you have peace of mind.it is not about him,he just want to hit and run,hold your dignity and if you are not sure just stay put,you will know..

Answer 35

Tell him frankly. Dont hesitate at all

Answer 36

CAN'T TELL UNTIL ITS DONE.CHOICE IS URS. TELL HIM TO HIT THE ALTAR WITH U,THAT U'LL BE OKAY WITH HIM ON UR WEDDING NITE.HIS REACTION WILL BE UR ANSWER. UR VIRGINITY IS A RARE GEM.GUARD IT WITH CARE.

Answer 37

BE PREPARED THEN WAIT TILL YOU'RE READY WHICH YOU'RE NOT AT THIS TIME...THERE IS NO DRESS REHERSAL ONLY OPENING NIGHT....

Answer 38

sex is not a thing that is being ask for, IT HAPPENS... its an event when you express your love

Answer 39

learn how to spell before you have sex lol

Answer 40

i don't thank so it is best to wate to you get maaryed tell him that he might under stand and good luck

Answer 41

If your unsure it's not right. wait til you know for sure

Answer 42

dont sleep with him unless your happy to maybe just suck him off. and swallow as spitting is rude

Answer 43

You dont sound like your ready. Please tell him that you dont think you're ready yet.

Answer 44

if you are ready you would not have any doubt

Answer 45

believe me you will know when the time is right

Answer 46

it's all up to u...if u dun wanna do it, tell him. If he loves u..he will support u...simple...otherwise...u know what i mean than!

Answer 47

you know our not ready dont do it. you only lose your virginity once.....

Answer 48

GROW UP & U'LL ANSWER IT YOURSELF. WANTING TO HAVE SEX OR NOT SHOULD BE DECIDED BY YOU.

Answer 49

spread your legs

Answer 50

just remember u cant have it back

Answer 51

Don't know

Answer 52

dont do it until u are married

Answer 53

how old are you?

Answer 54

Please don't do it!