Question:
Should I bring it up to my boyfriend?
2018-06-14 17:44:34 UTC
I have been dating my current boyfriend for a few months, all has been going well and he is a great guy. A little backstory, before we started dating he was with another girl, they ended their relationship in a pretty rocky way and then we started ‘courting’ a few weeks after. When we were ‘courting’ I noticed that his ex would always be flirting with him and be around him. It even got to the point at which she ended up getting mad with him because he took me out to lunch, I didn’t think much of it tbh, UNTIL I noticed that anytime I came around she would run off. I mentioned it to him and he said that she was trying to talk to him still, but he was over her. So I left it at that. Today he asked me to go through their previous conversations because he was attempting to find one of his friends phone numbers which was sent in a previous conversation. While searching for the number in the messages, I noticed that around the time that we got together and she was acting very off, he was starting conversations with her, making her promises to attend her future sports games and to see her over the summer. I’m not really upset about it at all, but I want to know if it’s worth talking to him about or if I should leave it?
Four answers:
Beverly S
2018-06-14 18:19:42 UTC
Around the time you got together? Was it before or after? We need to know to answer your question.
Doug H
2018-06-14 18:14:38 UTC
You should always check things out before you make drastic decisions. You have to approach him in a non-convicting way and give him a chance to explain and if you believe him. Problem solved. If you don't believe him, then you can decide if you should leave him.
lala
2018-06-14 18:11:42 UTC
Dont you see that those 2 are liars and hypocrite

Dump both of them
?
2018-06-14 17:55:14 UTC
not unless you want your relationship to end the same way


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