How to tell him? Vacation trouble.?

Question

Hi,

I was recently planning on going on a vacation for my 22nd birthday with a good friend of mine, her husband, and someone that I have been seeing/dating. He and I are not an official couple but we spend almost every weekend together and meet during the week for lunch on occasion. Anyhow, recently my friends car broke down and she had to use her vacation money to get a new one. So now after already booking the tickets---- its just going to be the guy I have been seeing and myself going to Las Vegas. While Vegas is fun, and it would be the first time either of us have gone, I am worried that he will be put off by the fact that it will just be the two of us. The vacation itself is just a three night stay in one of the hotels located at City Center. We have only been "seeing" each other for two months now, and will be three months on March 16th (my birthday actually). Any advice on how to tell him? or what I should do if he decides not to go based off of that fact?

Side note--- The vacation is the weekend of my birthday-- So I hope he doesn't feel trapped.

Answer 1

Hmm... Well it does seem like you're really debating whether or not to go... But hunni, when it comes down to it.. Its your birthday! You want to go to go to Vegas! I think you should go! Regardless of this Guy.! You can take him and see how.. It goes between you and him.. You never know, maybe there is something between you guys.. And you just haven't exposed it yet. On the other hand if your gut feeling says dont take him..do not take him, this is your weekend! You deserve to feel comfortable without any doubts.

Answer 2

Just tell him, and if for some unfathomable reason he's uncomfortable with the fact that its just the two of you, take a friend instead. I can't see him refusing to go to be honest.



However, if you are uncomfortable going there alone with him, you should make other arrangements.



Good luck, and have a great birthday.

Answer 3

If you want to go then ask him how he feels about it. If you don't want to go then just explain to him that you're not comfortable with it. There is always a chance he'd much rather stay close to home with you and save all that money he would have to spend in Vegas.

Answer 4

Cancel the trip if you can get your money back, and plan it for later on if you still are interested.

Answer 5

some times its difficult arrange to vacation ,opposite s/b understand