I dont know what to make of this guy!?

Question

ok i dont know this guy to well i've seen him a couple of times at parties and stuff but never really spoken to him...recently he added me on facebook then on msn and we got talking...he said i was gorgeous and stuff...and he keeps talking to me like that everyday for a whole week...then one day he doesnt say hi so i say hi to him ...and he acts all off and moody..

so i sort of give up for a while i ask him whats wrong and he just says nothing..then out of the blue he starts talking to me again all normal...and gives me his number...then he keeps asking me about sex..and are you a virgin...what kinda stuff do you like...etc etc....i personally just felt he was being really full on...and if i didnt respond postively he went all moody..

so i AGAIN i just kind of gave up cos thats really not the sort of person im interested in ..and then he send me text saying he's sorry if he's full on but he just wants it to be 'open and honest' and for us to be comfortable...!? (to me it just feels like he's pushing for sex)

everyday he texts me asking if im ok and what am i up to...like normal stuff ..
He keeps saying he would like a relationship with me ...but we hardly know each other and feels like the only conversation he initiates is about sex or something like that...i know guys tend to go for all that stuff but im getting kind of sick of it..

I asked him what he was looking for because if he just wants sex ...im not the girl he's looking for (trying to tell him to just go) because i want a proper relationship..

and he answers saying no he really likes me ..your pretty..clever etc etc ..so i think maybe he's got the hint..then he starts up with the sammeee conversations allll over again!?

he asks if i want to meet him....then a couple of hours later says he's not ready for it!?

someone help....!? i do like him...but when he acts like that it just puts me off completely ..feels like theres nothing special about it ...and he just wants sex.....soo decoding needed...any thoughts would be good!?

Answer 1

hiya, he is one of those guys that hound a girl,give her a tall story then takes her to bed.he thinks he is gods gift to women,when he gets fed up with you and sex,he goes to the next girl,and so on.don't fall for his charms,he is a players,and you deserve much better than him,which you would never get him.so find a guy who loves and respects YOU.xx

Answer 2

How old is this guy? I remember when I was around 13/14 and I had no idea of how to approach someone of the opposite sex (when it came to the romantic side of things anyway). He may just be a bit clueless (aww bless).



If we're talking adults - or at least young adults - then I would steer clear unless you're the type to like a bit of drama. Because he sounds like he has no idea what he wants; nor does he sound all that genuine.



It would seem he can't take a hint and you may need to lay it out to him, politely: I just don't think this would work out, you're not what what I'm looking for etc - I'm sure you know all the cliches.

Bear in mind, though, he has your number! People are unpredictable and it may not be as easy as we'd all like it to be.



Note - I have a quite a few girls that are friends (good friends) and when we talk about these things I see a pattern: a lot of them seem to find it difficult to say no or just walk away from the situation. Even if it's bad for them in an obvious way.

Somewhat irrelevant. Was kinda just ranting there.



Hope this helps.

Answer 3

maybe he doesnt see sex as you know hey im banging this hot chick but maybe like intamicy like its hard to explain i dont know enough about him but either he just wants to **** your brings out or he likes you and wants to be with you but really likes sex -_^ goodluck

Answer 4

run like the wind i smell a player!!