Do you believe in XXX home videos?????

Question

my boyfriend wants us to make a xxx home video...should i do it...we've been together for 5 yrs...but i'm not sure if i should...what is your view on this???

Answer 1

oh i did movie's with my girls friends but i never let them out

you gotta ask your self is he the type to do something that low

its risky

if he's a good man he'll always let you keep the only copy their is and you're not going to hold on to them forever, you guys will get tired of watching it then you'll erase it and make another one or not...



but under no circumstances are to let him take it out of you're house or you're possession ---unless you're the type to expose it

Answer 2

Have you not learned anything from the celebrity XXX movies? DO NOT do it! No matter how much you think your boyfriend loves you and respects you, the tape could always end up leaking out.



Ask yourself this: How would you feel if it did leak out? On the internet? To your friends? To your family?

Answer 3

Well if it's as good as those ones in the XXX stores then it would be a good idea. I usually don't watch XXX movies but if you want to do it then go ahead. You never know how it is till you try it out for yourself.

Answer 4

Nothing wrong with making the video. It can add a great deal of excitement to your love life. Just remember to control the distribution rights. Odds are it will eventually show up on the internet. As long as you have no problem with that, have fun!

Answer 5

If you think you like that sort of thing, do it on a recorder without tapes or film. You can watch those over and over until you record again. They're quick and easy to erase, too. As unsure as you sound, You wouldn't want any hard copies around.

Answer 6

Just remember that when you do that you're putting yourself naked doing naughty things on video tape. Just hope that there's never any bad break-up or copies made, you'd be surprised at what people have done when things end badly.



I mean, yes, it is fun to do when you love someone and think you're going to be together forever and what could it hurt? It's your choice hun!

Answer 7

NEVER put your nude pics out there or movies.You never know where they will end up someday. How much respect can he have for you? Why would he have to make movies when he has the real thing? What does is really plan on doing with these? Id not only not do it,,Id dump him.

Answer 8

from a perverted guys view



I feel that you should think about it even more and talk with your BF. I don't believe that he would be using it to make money. If you feel comfortable doing it, do it. If you don't then tell your BF and make him understand that you are not comfortable with taking that step. Also, if you are having difficulties with your love life, and feel that you need to add a bit more taboo, this is one way to do it. Remember, communication is the key.

Answer 9

I don't think it a very good thing. What if something happens and you two break up? Who gets the movie? I don't think that I would want my boyfriends friend seeing me in my birthday suit, even if we wasn't together anymore. So NO.

Answer 10

My husband and I did it about 2 years ago.. I let him video us. We watched it a couple of times then we had it destroyed.. It is fun and exciting, but never, ever leave anything like that laying around.. Better safe than sorry..

Answer 11

if u want to do it then what the hell but if ur skeptical which u seem to be since ur asking maybe you should think twice. make sure u both understand its trash if anything ever happened between u guys so no ones privates are out in public!

Answer 12

Girl, if you think you want to, then go right ahead. But I think otherwise. Think about it: do you really want a video of you two having sex? It just seems wrong. Do whatever, and Good Luck!

XOXO,

Miss Rachel

Answer 13

I'm still looking for the girl to take photos with me having sex let alone video. But I'd totally do it.

Answer 14

My lady & I have done several & I must tell you it is very erotic for us to watch ourselves having sex. It is the best!! However, be sure you can trust him if the 2 of you split, if he's nasty it could be a problem

Answer 15

Great idea; my gal Melrose loves to make homemade movies with me. In fact, she will even make movies of herself alone and movies of her and a girlfriend together to send to me when I am away. I am so into these movies; watching my gal Melrose on tape is very hot. Make your own film and the two of you will enjoy it lots.



For the question writer, read the post by my gal Melrose and give her 10 points for telling you how to do this and how much for it will be for you.



For the haters giving me a thumbs down here, read all the messages and you'll see the one from my gal Melrose that says how we do this and that I did not make up a story.

Answer 16

It is the ultimate representation of trust.



What do you do if you guys break up or get into a serious arguement? Do you both get a copy?



You know your man better then us.

Answer 17

It's great to have when you're still together. But when you split- then that's when the problem comes. I did one once during my marriage. At first it was great. But then we divorced. I regret doing it. So, the decision is on you.

Answer 18

It is okay...Nothing to be ashame of...As long as you keep it between the both of you...not other people....My hubby and I have a copy for ourselves..and it is very interesting seeing what you have done...Especially when you see your hubby eyes rolled back to his head...If you know what I mean...MMMMM...Now go make the movie and then watch it...and watch him...Grooling all over himself for you...

Answer 19

If you want to.. I have never done it for fear of the tape falling into the wrong hands.. you could always do it with an agreement that you get the tape or get to destroy it after viewing.

Answer 20

if its for personal view and YOU keep it go for it. He probably wants to make it and watch it while you guys are ahving sex you never know, but its up to you just make sure you keep it and he doesn't sell it online.

Answer 21

Pamela and Tommy ring a bell?

Answer 22

when men are in love with you, they do not want to share you with anyone -- they don't want to talk about how you make love to them nothing. when men start taking pictures of their wives/girls that is a form of trophy-ism and they are more infatuated with your outside than in, also, they will share these little pics. find your integrity and place it where YOU need it to be.

Answer 23

It is a personal choice. But if it would make you feel better you can send me a copy and I will critique it for future movies lol

Answer 24

Not unless you don't care if a stranger sees it (or your family). If you feel like you have too much to lose if someone you don't want to see it does, then don't ... Otherwise, go for it.

Answer 25

No, don't do it. You are going to be disrespecting people like me, you have no ideal what type of people is going to be watching your videos!

Answer 26

dont do anything on tape that you wouldnt want to get out to the world. It tends to happen.

Answer 27

depends, cuz he could sell it and make money, it could ruin you if u ever break up and he has a copy, and then what if someone in ur family accidentally found it, but then again ur choice.

Answer 28

if you have a least some kind of respect for urself dont do it but then again if you wanna try new things go ahead

Answer 29

Personal choice, if you find it exciting then go for it, if not then dont do anything you are uncomfortable with.

Answer 30

If you do make one dont post it on the internet...

there are too many pervs on the internet already and too much porn....

Answer 31

as long olny 1 copy is made and if you two do happen to break up after you make it, make sure you have it!!

Answer 32

Absolutely. You'll love it.

Answer 33

yea, just get a really good video cam

Answer 34

DO IT DO IT DO IT JUST KINDING DONT ITS NOT RIGHT JUST TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND MAYBE YOU COULD JUST WAIT FOR A WHILE

Answer 35

it's really ur choice. if u don't like the idea, don't. i wouldn't though

Answer 36

Sure, why not. Just make sure YOU keep the tape.

Answer 37

Try it.



You never know, you might like it. And if you don't, you can always erase it.

Answer 38

no, if you split up... (hope that doesn't happen)

he may post it online O.o

Answer 39

Here, I'll hold the camera....:)

Answer 40

u like porno....DO IT

u dont belive in it and ur religious...NO DONT DO IT

Answer 41

after five years.......yeah

Answer 42

if you do it, send it to me ok