Question:
Where does love come from? Why do we fall in love with someone ..?
2006-11-03 09:08:47 UTC
why do we fall in love with someone even though it isn't the best for us? we love them even though we know life is going to be hard being with them but we can't be without them. Why is that?
93 answers:
tnt_bbe
2006-11-03 10:41:36 UTC
Think about it……

Everything happens for a reason……

It’s hard to find someone you truly love……

Let alone to find someone who truly loves you……

If a movie had a sad ending……

Would you watch it?

I don’t think so……

So when the chance comes……

Don’t ever let it go……

Because you may never get it back……

You will fight with your best friend……

In life you will realise that the one person……

That you thought would never let you down, probably will……

You will see time pass by so fast……

So live life like it was your last day to live……

Because you never know, it could be your last……

Did you know that every minute you spend upset……

Is a minute you’ll never get back……

Find someone that calls you beautiful, instead of hot……

Someone who isn’t afraid to hold your hand in front of his friends……

Someone who will call you just to say “hi”……

Someone who stays up at night to watch you sleep……

Someone who looks at you in the morning and says you’re still beautiful……

Someone who says “baby, you’re beautiful” and really means it……

Someone who will treat you with respect……

Someone that will call you back if you hang up on them……

And kisses your forehead……

Someone who’s got all the time in the world for you……

And is constantly reminding you of how much they care for you……

And how lucky they are to have you……

Love is the key……

Which opens the gates of happiness……

The hardest thing you’ll ever do……

Is watch the one you love……

Love someone else……

So if you don’t want that to happen……

Then never let that person go……

Life is like a pen……

You can cross things out, but you can never erase them……

No matter what the memories, you will remember them forever……

Life is too short……

So cherish every moment of it……

And never let that person go……

Take as many pictures as possible……

With love and patience, nothing is impossible……

So love without fear……

Trust without questioning……

Accept with things change……

The best thing in life is love……

You should always love like you have never been hurt……

Boys come and go……

But the true guy will last forever……

Treasure the memories you shared together……

Before it’s a little too late……

The greatest challenge in life……

Is to find someone……

Who knows your flaws, differences and weaknesses……

And yet, still finds the best in you……

You can’t fight fate, what happens……

Just happens……

Find someone who will place his head on your heart……

And whisper, “this is my new favourite song”





that explains real love, so if that's what you feel, then it's love, but if it's not, its obsession



tnt_bbe x0x
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2017-01-14 01:20:33 UTC
Where Love Comes From
jp
2006-11-03 11:09:46 UTC
I think love is superficial. I think back in the olden days men did not like to share their women so they decided to come up with something to claim ownership hence the marriage license. Anyway, when you are with someone for a long period of time or having been with people back to back you become insecure and don't believe you can do things on your own. It becomes a comfortable familiar situation even though it is not the best for you. I am a very independant 23 year old woman single mom and I have been the one to break off all of my relationships being in "love" one time. I am always watching my own back because I know for a fact that in the long run I am the only person that is capable of doing that. I suggest that you should do that yourself.

If you cant love yourself enough to make sure your treated the right way why do you think you can love someone else the right way. Love yourself first then you'll know when you come across a person that compliments you.
Bastard
2006-11-04 06:12:43 UTC
Well most of the time people fall in love without knowing that it won't be the best for them. This case that you do know that its not good is basically the same thing, as your feelings just run over your reasoning. But atleast you seem to have the sense to think things through a bit, which is good.



People are desperate in a way. I mean you're supposed to pair up, supposed to start a family and move together, get married, get kids and so on in today's society. Most people want to plan these things, like "I'll get married when I'm 25" etc, but you really can't plan stuff like this. It just happens, and if you do try, you'll end up making all the wrong decisions.



But yes, the answer to your question is mainly desperation. I'll never feel like this, I'll never find another person that seems to love and care for me even this much as this person does. And you want to believe this is it. You want to find that someone, even though this guy here most likely isnt that someone. So just adjust your perspective, see things through, look back in your life, you'll see you'll do just fine. No need to rush things, no need to make bad decisions. Listen to reason, but don't forget your feelings in the process.
akira
2006-11-03 10:07:28 UTC
Love comes from our hearts desire.Even though in our head we know it may or may not be the best choice for us,but life is hard and you take the good with the bad.So it's wether or not we can withstand all the bad things that comes with relationships.

For I belive It's not what anyone says or does to you it's what you will take.To be with someone for a long period of time means that you accept them just as they are and to change them is fault on your part.Life with love is very hard somtimes and you can often forget why you fell in love in the first place.But if you take a step back and look at what you have with that person then it doesen't matter how many fights you have been in only that you make up after it's over.
Mr. Jeff - It is what it is ☺
2006-11-03 11:21:23 UTC
Damn! there are alot of good answers to this question. WOW!



It's fun to be loved and also to love someone else and be there for them through the thick and the thin but it's now fun when you have done so much for oine and then all of a sudden the break-up comes out of no-where. Then that when you really feel the pain. Even when you are the nice guy in the relationship, it just sucks to be hurt and it's very tough to move





Here is some advice: Go out and read or get the book called "Who moved my Cheese? by Spencer Johnson M.D.



It's a great book that talks about relationships and how to move on.
JahMekYa
2006-11-03 10:49:30 UTC
Love is all there is.

Its also a convenient excuse for laziness, stupidity, horniness, or just being human. The feeling of love is also driven by reproduction needs which are set up on a chemical level within the body. You are a woman right. Some women are attracted to two types the "bad boy" type who is a survivor because she wants her children to be survivors too. And the Home body who will stay with her forever. This can be disastrous, because your subconscious will lead you to take the bad boys genes home to be taken care of by the home body.

Do you ever wonder why all ladies like dirty dancing its because the leading role guy is the perfect mix if both types, "bad boy who will fight for her but who is also sensitive and loves to dance". Us men also have a splintered personality the things we want don't always fit. The erotic for example (also an expression of love) is sometimes mysterious and temporary, and in its very nature

and cannot be lasting.



The media also tells us how to love, depending on what will sell more products.



Its also the most beautiful thing in life.



BigLove
Holly
2006-11-03 10:57:11 UTC
Love comes from your brain, even though you feel it in your heart.



Who you love? It has a lot to do with your life's expeiences. Low-self esteem can cause you to stay with someone who is not the best for you. Or he might remind you of a father or some male figure who didn't give you the love/ attention that you needed at the time. You might just be too forgiving, and haven't been hurt enough to have learned life's hard lessons.



Love comes from Within. Don't ever let the well run dry; even if the water gets polluted! Eventually, it'll run clear and pure again.



:^)
Clueless
2006-11-03 10:03:03 UTC
I think what matters in life is what can happen and not what is supposed to happen. Falling in love with someone you cant have due to circumstance clearly shows that no matter what, it cannot work. I think it is just part of life when you cant have everything that you want.

Why do we fall in love? Well, that is just the same as why do we want the chocolate cake instead of the vanilla cake? We love because of particular things that appeal to us. What appeals to us is not necessary what is best for us and hence, if we want to make the most of our lives, it is often better to accept reality than to fight battles you couldnt ever possibly win. And no, love doesnt always conquer all....
witchway
2006-11-03 09:40:43 UTC
Wow-- Ive had two husbands and a few(to say the least) boyfriends, and I can honestly say that the man I am with now is truly the love of my life.....the others are what you described... not a good thing and after soul searching i have found that I had a NEED to "fix" them and their problems. It wasn't LOVE- love comes from a deeper place, where the mental, physical and emotional all connect.... what you are talking about is not coming from a positive place.... thats the only advise i can give.
2006-11-05 07:10:01 UTC
Love comes from "Source"...some people call "Source" ... 'God': some call it '! AM' ...this is why Jesus prefaced all His important decrees/statements with 'I AM'.

'Falling' in Love is a result of 'Selfishness'. Attempting to acquire something from outside inorder to fill a void within.

Also one should have realized as a child when you 'fall' you usually get hurt! Divine Love and Human Love are two completely different energies. ....like the Sun and Moon!
2006-11-03 10:50:29 UTC
Love is a condition or phenomenon of emotional primacy, or absolute value. Love generally includes an emotion of intense attraction to either another person, a place, or thing; and may also include the aspect of caring for or finding identification with those objects, including self-love. Love can describe an intense feeling of affection, an emotion or an emotional state. In ordinary use, it usually refers to interpersonal love, an experience usually felt by a person for another person. Love is commonly considered impossible to define.



The concept of love, however, is subject to debate. Some deny the existence of love. Others call it a recently invented abstraction, sometimes dating the "invention" to courtly Europe during or after the middle ages (though this is contradicted by the sizable body of ancient love poetry). Others maintain that love really exists, is not an abstraction, but is indefinable; being a quantity which is spiritual, metaphysical, or philosophical in nature. Some psychologists maintain that love is the action of lending one's "boundary" or "self esteem" to another. And others attempt to define love and apply the definition to everyday life.

http://www.answers.com/loveSource(s):
x_angel_0f_darkness_x
2006-11-03 09:18:41 UTC
People say that its a part of life and others say is just some hormone that makes you feel the sensation like and orgasm or adrenline. To me it what you make out of it. Most peoples goal is to share life w/ someone that cares about you and the feeling is what makes you strive and hope that it doesnt fade. This is a hard question that only you can answer sometimes. Somedays are bad and good but all in all the feeling of being in love and love may differ but its your choice of how you want it to make you feel.
Who_Dey_Baby?
2006-11-03 11:04:22 UTC
"Falling in love" is an illusion. The feeling of "Falling in Love" is also known as "Being Horny". It may be real, it may be powerful, it may make us do insane things, it may even start wars, but that feeling is not love.



Love comes from trust and appreciation. It comes from time and knowing someone. It is the feeling that wakes you up in the middle of the night and makes you realize how much you admire that woman lying next to you. It comes from watching her at a baseball game, knowing that she hates baseball but her being happy...just because you are happy.



Most of all, though, love comes not from within, not from some secret mysterious place in your heart. It comes from your actions. You love someone through your actions, not through your feelings. Anyone can "feel" love. Truly happy people are the ones who Act love.
ASH
2006-11-03 10:12:09 UTC
Love comes from God. The reason we fall in love and live with unhealthy relationships is for the purpose to help someone or yourself overcome something. In most cases it's better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all.
tfjfiggers
2006-11-03 09:36:48 UTC
Love is God and that is where love comes from. There is a sensual love that without God that us human feel is true love. The reason we fall in love with someone and knowing that it's not best for us is because we are looking for that love that only God can give. That contentment within ourselves to let us know that we deserve God's best in a relationship instead of being hurt by someone and facing the hurt. It's no such thing that we can't be without someone if we want what's best for us. It is vital for us to know what we want in a mate and look for those qualities and build on them. The heart is a tender organ that should not be damaged by someone taking us for granted. We are the ones who should guard our hearts if we want what's best for us. If I were you I would seek the Lord and ask Him to heal you from past hurts and heal your heart to a new start in life. God bless you.
2006-11-03 10:51:22 UTC
well before i answer are you in love? well if you are what do you love about the person is he similar to you or is he an exact opposite if he's the same well your answer is in your face you simply love him because he is just like you and you have the same things in common and that makes you feel comfortable and comfortability is always number one no matter what you can instantly stop loving someone when thatey have made you feel uncomfortable and you can't be without them because you feel like you will never be able to relate to any one person like the on ethat was just like you love blinds many things life fear anger and difficulty when your with the one you love all those things don't matter until they happen...
2006-11-03 10:08:25 UTC
It is hard to understand...

It all starts with the brain and psycoligically needing to be loved.

Then comes the feeling of being wanted and seeing what other people have in a good relationship.

Why we love the people who make our life hard and why we cant be without them all starts with psycology and inside the brain.
truly_insightful
2006-11-03 09:56:52 UTC
Love is a myth. It is only true when it is between family/blood relatives. Our brains are very strong and if we believe something long enough it gets imbeded in us. If you are attracted to 'bad boys' then thats what you'll seek out. Saying that you can't help you fall in love with is just not true, you don't HAVE to spend time with that person, its just a matter of self control. And don't let society tell you who you should or should not be with, go with what makes your happy.
Mel051293
2006-11-03 10:14:29 UTC
it comes from the heart. god makes everything happen for a reason. everyone needs something to look foirward to. even if you are not sure if the person loves you back, you can still await the answers. otherwise you dont have a realy good reason to wake up in the morning. knowing this you can wake up and think if todayy is the day your love will be confessed.
Mav
2006-11-03 09:35:12 UTC
Great question. Love comes from the Heart and the Mind. We love our parents because they created us in God's Image. There are different Levels of Love. Love of a sister or a Brother. Love of a bf or Husband. The experts feel that "Love" is a brain function. Chemicals are released within the brain and create a feel of "well being". In a romantic sense, Love can be described as "Crazy Love" , "Insane" about her or him. As the Poets say..." It is better to love and have Lost, than to have never Loved at all. Physical attraction and our senses contribute to passion and Love. Lovers are very special people as the song goes. Those of us that have Lost a love have a very differ cult time adjusting to that Loss. Some people never recover at all. Opinion: Love the One you are with and enjoy the great companionship of passion, friendship and respect. As the song goes: " I say hello to you and I love you".
K@t
2006-11-03 10:22:15 UTC
I wish i could answer that question but i can only ask it myself. Its weird how we are so attracked to the very things that give us problems and make life hard. I messed up and fell in love with another woman's man. He did leave her for me but i got my heart broke when he went back to her. No one can explain why we do what we do but love or not you have to do whats best for yourself even if that means leaving the very person you love most.
curiousG
2006-11-03 10:54:04 UTC
Here is my opinion on love... it is not all puppy dogs and ice cream, I believe that love is a conscious decision. Deciding that you are going to love that person for the rest of your life without any reservations, that to me is love. The situation that you are describing sounds more like an attachment issue. If a friend came to you with the same situation, would you not explain to them that if being involved with one another is not good for you, why would you put either one of yourselves in that sort of position.
2006-11-03 10:32:40 UTC
Evolution rides again! Seriously, it is obviously a survival advantage to have a mate for an extended period of time, so that offspring can be raised to adulthood. This also explains why a female is sexually receptive at all times, rather than just when explicitly fertile. And there's your natural selection.
tiuliucci
2006-11-03 10:04:48 UTC
Love comes from deep within us. What you are talking about is not love but attraction. We learn about the type of person that we want to spend our lives with as children, usually by looking at our parents.



If our parents chose poorly, we are likely to do the same. We learn what traits our parents looked for in each other. We learn how to treat our loved one from our parents.



Fathers who abuse their wives teach their sons to be abusive. Mothers who live in fear, unfortunately, teach their sons that women can and should be controlled. Daughters in these households marry men who abuse them, but usually in a slightly different method than their mothers experienced.



Children who live in households with bad marriages learn that marriages do not have to be good, they just have to exist. These children usually go out into the world poorly trained for how to choose a loved one.



To answer your question, love is a beautiful part of every person. But our hermeneutics, our limited environment, makes our view of the world so limited that we do not look for our true soul mate, but instead settle on what we saw in the past.



Take care,

Troy
mari
2006-11-03 10:41:36 UTC
that's one of the greatest wonders of the world ..........i suppose some people just have a surtin somthing that makes you fall in love with them blindly because you see something in them that you like and it attracts you to them and we surpass the fact that not everything about them is great and you become so in love you hope that in dew time this bad stuff will go away or that maybe we can even change them not realizing that no one can change a person unless that person wants to be changed..............
juicy
2006-11-03 10:02:43 UTC
because your heart controls that not your mind. I've been with my man for 6 yrs and he is far from perfect he's been to prison befor is still on parole but when were together he is the sweetest person i've ever been with and we get along sooooo good, it's like we have everything in common. people don't always see what we see in a person. just because someone has gotten in trouable in the past doesn't mean he's not worthy. my man which we got married last yr, has had a rough life and now he's trying to live it right and i forgot to mention we have a 4yr old daughter and he's a very good dad with her and a good partner to me . so don't let anyone look down on your man regardless of his past because thats exactly what it is his past as long as he's trying to better his life now thats all that matters and love him as much as you can.
Some Girl from College
2006-11-03 09:54:31 UTC
Love is when you would do anything for a person even be willing to die. Many people feel infatuation with another person and refer to it as love. Love is when you know some one and like I said before, you are willing to do anything for them. Where they have become a part of you. Love doesn't have to be with just the opposite sex, or a boyfriend. I'm pretty sure everyone loves their family. I would die for my sister, she may get on my nerves, but I would. And I love my friends, I would die for them. (More like I love them like my family). When you love someone, I'm pretty sure you would know it.
Pirate Hooker
2006-11-03 09:49:05 UTC
I've found that you do have control over who you love. We fall in love because we want to, it doesn't sneak up on us. When you find someone that has qualities that you admire your mind and body says "Go get that" and so the chase begins.
M.Y
2006-11-03 09:35:31 UTC
The human heart leaves us with no choice. We are passionate people who fall for someone even when we don't want to. Love comes from the heart.
gurl_balla14
2006-11-03 09:30:28 UTC
well i can honestly say that love comes from tha heart and we fall in love to be healed even though we might not need it and its not always the best for us and i think its our job to make that easy path for ourselves so it wouldnt be as hard to deal with if there is a bump along the way.
2006-11-03 10:01:08 UTC
Ok I`ll try to answer your question.

None of us are perfect. We cant survive all by ourselves.

N in our minds we try to make ourselves more complete.

We r attracted to people who we think complete us.

we feel that our life with them will be more complete.. N things which r missing right now will be missed no more.

Thats y we fall in love..



We live all our life chasing dreams.. We r always more interested in the unachievable and unexpected.

We like to run after wat is hard to catch.. Thats how we spend all our lives. Thats the answer to yur situation.

Remember that wat u r runnng after might not remain as interesting when u get it. Maybe U feel chasing it is more fun..n thts Y u r chasing it.
2006-11-03 09:55:09 UTC
love comes from the heart.. .

we fall in love with someone because we care about them.
4mika
2006-11-03 09:44:32 UTC
Love, comes from the heart sent from the heavens. Love is the bond that you share with someone that you are connected in a way never thought possible. Love is the understanding of the other in the depths no one else does.
soldierman69
2006-11-03 09:19:18 UTC
I think that once you find that certain soulmate of yours, the two of you become one. When that happens you start having conflicting interest, however, if that person it true and you are true to them, then the both of you can move mountains with each other. We cant move a mountain alone. We have to have help, even the people that are upmost independent. I met my soulmate and we have our times, but i would never want anyone else in my life but her. She is my best friend
royalpalaceofhell
2006-11-03 10:06:11 UTC
Love is an actual chemical reaction that occurs in the brain.We fall in love and thats a natural instinct to get us to procreate and because its natural to be horny
Mz.Tweety
2006-11-03 09:57:08 UTC
that's a good question but i think we fall in love to learn you can only love for so long then. but i also think being in love is good because everybody is going to get hurt i mean that's life, i think that we sometimes but our self in that predicament because us as women always get into whats not good for us and try to make it right.
Patricia S
2006-11-03 09:45:37 UTC
been there, done it. Loved a younger guy for six years and his life was nothing but problems, finally woke up one day and said he is using me to solve his problems, what have I done for him, everything, what has he done for me, little and I moved on but strange as it may seem, I still miss him. He made me feel on top of the world all the time and I would give anything to get that feeling back. In a relationship, you have to weigh everything, it won't work if it is only based on love, there is alot more to it.
2006-11-03 10:56:18 UTC
You love... but what really is going on in youre head? Every feeling has a gene wich make you act in a way... You know the rest
2006-11-03 10:28:50 UTC
The feeling of love comes from hormones affecting your dopamine levels. In many ways it is identical to becoming a junkie, and it feels Sooo good! Nature works in (not so) mysterious ways! ;-)

Nature tickling our pleasure centers is its (her?) way to make us reproduce. When the rush goes away, people go looking for it somewhere else.... can you say divorce? ;-)
blue violet
2006-11-03 09:47:58 UTC
God is love. Love comes from God. We fall in love because we decided to, not that we feel but we decided, first we get attracted, then we liked, then we decide to fall for him/her.
anamika
2006-11-03 09:30:43 UTC
if everything in life was easy , things would get frustrating..



love is meant to hurt as much as it makes u happy.. its thro love that u live life at its pits and at its highest.. widly ecstatic n depressingly sad..



nothing is really the best for us.. whatever pain u undergo may be better for u than the best u perceive..
loverneedhelp
2006-11-03 11:04:53 UTC
Lol, if anyone dare to answer this question it simply means he or she doesnt understand what exactly love is , i wonder when people say its lust , lol (good joke) and also when people say hormones , lol . Debroh , why we say "fell in love" , coz we never know we are going to fell in deep mysterical heaven , love is magical , people say weird stuff , but let's remember words of Buddha

"million drops of emotions create single drop of love , million drops of love create single drop of prayer , million drop of prayer let you meet god , it doesnt matter whether you love god or human being, love is love "
leazngurl
2006-11-03 11:00:27 UTC
It comes from the heart. It's hard to explain. It's just a feeling that you get in your chest like it's about to burst.
mytm4u
2006-11-03 10:09:25 UTC
If you want to know real love read 1 Corinthians the 13th chapter.
Jen05
2006-11-03 10:38:55 UTC
I know EXACTLY what you mean...i dont have an answer 2 it though...i dont think you can help who you fall in love with
wHaT eVeR
2006-11-03 10:21:48 UTC
Not me... i walk away sometimes after the first date. Even

if i like the guy, and find him attractive. If i know their is

going to be a problem, or we want different things, i move on.
Dianne
2015-05-30 14:00:19 UTC
Love comes from God, He put it in each of our human hearts.
Step
2006-11-03 10:18:43 UTC
GOD! He also did the frist marrage,Adam and Eve,we are from each other so why wouldn`t we need our self.In a way we can love others only as much as we love our self.
funneh
2006-11-03 09:58:08 UTC
yeah...

love is a choice girl.



in some part of the world..they call it blind love.

in the other part of the world, some call it sacrifice..



its a choice. which one d u think it is.

if u had made a choice..just dont regret.



but you have to know this:

LOVE gives happiness for BOTH..not just ONE side.
bassetluv
2006-11-03 09:30:41 UTC
people get depended on someone,and some people are afraid of

being a lone. and then you have people who been with someone so long they become like an comfortable old shoe,also real love comes from the heart.
B N
2006-11-03 18:38:47 UTC
actually love is a mistaken word - it's actually temporary insanity - but it's a great high - such a wonderful state - but we make irrational decisions

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Michael L
2006-11-03 09:22:35 UTC
The heart; you don't choose who you love; because; wish I knew....



Man I should get 8 points for these answers!
KoKo
2006-11-03 10:51:39 UTC
Love comes from within. When we find our soulmate (our one true love), we would die for them and not give it a second thought.
betrayal
2006-11-03 09:25:35 UTC
first of all there is nothing called love in this world.we fall in so called love.we never rise.the real has died long back.it will never come again.people just want someone to share everything physical and spiritual and we call it LOVE.IF LOVE REALLY EXISTS,THEN WHOSOEVER HAS LOVED WONT BE EVER WITHOUT IT.EITHER LIVE WITH UR LOVE OR DIE WITH UR LOVE.ELSE IT IS INFATUATION NOT LOVE.
2006-11-03 10:11:34 UTC
I'll answer it with a question "Who wrote the book of love"
L
2006-11-03 10:42:09 UTC
love is a deep compassion and uncontrolable feeling

love is thinking of his name and shivering

love is blushing when he's near

love is crying when he is hurt





love is not sex
txz_gurl
2006-11-03 09:44:32 UTC
WELL, I THINK LOVE COMES FROM INSIDE.WHEN U SEE SOMEONE, AND YOU THINK THEYRE CUTE OR HOT OR THEYRE FUNNY OR WHATEVER THAT IS TRUE LOVE. THAT HAPPENED TO ME. WE LOVED EACH OTHER SO MUCH AND OUR PARENTS DIDNT WANT US TOGETHER. WE COULDNT GO OUT, SO WE JUST HAD TO BREAK UP. HOPEFULLY DAT DOESNT HAPPEN TO YOU AND YES LOVE IS HARD YOU JUST HAVE TO HOLD ON AS MUCH AS YOU CAN AND I KNOW ITS GONNA BE HARD BUT THE BEST IS TO HOLD ON TO EACH OTHER AND NOT MAKE THE SAME MISTAKE I DID BECAUSE U BOTH KNOW THAT IS LOVE.
Zooya
2006-11-03 09:35:31 UTC
Because love is not a logical feeling.
Toto
2006-11-03 09:40:48 UTC
I think today - you can trust your dog and be happy then expecting happiness with your partner.

Love is just fiction and the world have limited sens.
2006-11-03 09:48:51 UTC
...we fall in love because we think it will take our minds off of the pain of our meaning less lives...
2006-11-03 09:16:29 UTC
That is not love. That is lust.

Love is wise and knows what is best for bth parties. Love doesn't require us nor the other party to be harmed.
2006-11-03 10:55:52 UTC
i will tel u sompin dont eva say i love u unless u mean it because i made that mistake and know i am left heartbroken because he said it back and the next day he dumped me . so i am tellin u if u say it u will be left heartbroken and single just like me :(
NY Lady
2006-11-03 09:46:18 UTC
beacuse love comes from your heart, not your head. yur head tell yu that it is inconvinentm foolish, unwise, etc, but your heart tells you what you really want. "love is not love which alters"
PAULINA S
2006-11-03 10:46:25 UTC
it's acutually human nature. it was a feeling or a emotion god intended for to feel not just for eachother but for him as well
freeall_freeme
2006-11-03 10:26:25 UTC
I guess you are missing the point altogether. This is not love but desire.
2006-11-05 02:14:43 UTC
that's just how love is.
cheeryeyeore
2006-11-03 10:32:44 UTC
you cant help falling for someone it just happens.
Joe
2006-11-03 10:13:01 UTC
Love is what it is
IGH3Rat
2006-11-03 09:37:27 UTC
If you are able to figure this out then you will be far better suited to answer bigger, more important questions than this one.
TheOneVersion3.0
2006-11-03 09:39:54 UTC
You know what they say, "The heart wants what the heart wants".
Deepak S
2006-11-03 10:37:02 UTC
love is great
2006-11-03 09:26:31 UTC
Your question is somewhat mixed up...it definitely doesn't describe love anyway, it sounds more like lust.
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2006-11-03 10:52:16 UTC
read the book "why we love" by Helen Fisher
2006-11-03 10:42:42 UTC
i dunno, wish i did... i luv a girl who doesnt even wanna bf for 2 years, im waiting for her... maybe im settin myself up for a heartbreak but im in luv wit her so im gonna wait the two years as her friend, and pray for more every night til then
simplegirl
2006-11-03 10:32:58 UTC
They say it is "chemistry"... I would say Love is from God
Laura H
2006-11-03 09:35:56 UTC
that's just how love is.
2006-11-03 09:30:52 UTC
it is that way we are

it is in moslems religion ,hearts are thee guidance,those who competes will be harmonized,others who diffrentiate will be in different
harmonieclark
2006-11-03 10:49:03 UTC
its a gift from god...so is sex, with the one u are meant for....god will let u know........don't try to find it urself and don't try to force it
zajil
2006-11-03 10:47:43 UTC
Testosterone ! to be blamed.
boncence
2006-11-03 09:16:49 UTC
From your heart : D
Chaos
2006-11-03 09:16:17 UTC
thats not love thats insanity
Geedebb
2006-11-03 10:30:51 UTC
Because love is blind deaf and dumb .
love2utam
2006-11-03 10:21:17 UTC
Honey, that is obsession.
arzavier_boyd
2006-11-03 10:51:40 UTC
because god has made it that way and he wants us to mate
DMB4Life
2006-11-03 09:31:49 UTC
its to teach you a lesson...whatever the lesson may be
2006-11-03 09:32:02 UTC
because we are ruled by our HEARTS or our HEADS. and sometimes, OUR HEARTS NEED TO BE EDUCATED!!!
2006-11-03 09:16:53 UTC
THIEF!!! TRY GETTING 4 QUESTIONS FOR THE PRICE OF ONE!!! YOU ARE A THIEF!
na
2006-11-03 10:42:07 UTC
its the heart guidance and function
notyochic
2006-11-03 09:23:40 UTC
LOVE IS A CHEMICAL INBALANCE!!
2006-11-03 09:39:04 UTC
it just happens
Grasshopper
2006-11-03 09:28:35 UTC
that's not love. that's desire.
Queen
2006-11-03 10:25:57 UTC
THE DEVIL!


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