I love a girl i cant be with help !?

Question

Hey i am an 18 year old guy , and i have this problem with a girl. I met her at a party 3 months ago and i reall got on with her and we ended up sleeping with each other. Ot was great at the time but i found myself thinking about her all the time. The same thing happened again two weeks ago and after the fact i started to feel really blue and almost depressed but this time i told her. She said that she liked me aswell but coildnt be with me because of some issues she has. I understand perfectly , everyone has their issues. I told her that i would wait for her no matter what until she is feeling ok , but she doesnt want me to. She is just everything i look for in a girl funny , really smart kind and beautiful and it kills me to know i cant be with her. Ive had my fair share of relationships, but ive never felt like this before in such a short time. I feel lost sad and pathetic. What do i do ?

Answer 1

I'm sorry it sounds like she is only after one thing and doesn't want a relationship right now. Whatever issues they may be, I honestly believe that if someone really likes you and wants to be with you, they will do anything they can to make this happen and there would be no excuses stopping it happening. It sounds like she is messing you around and does not really understand your feelings, she is telling you not to wait for her because she doesn't want to hurt you. You may feel like you want to wait for her now, but when enough time passes you will move on and meet someone else who feels the same way about you.

Answer 2

There really no such thing that you can do, but ask yourself does she REALLY like you as much as you like her, might the "issues" be that she is not interested in a relationship? Now im not telling you it has to be like that is this case, but just ask yourself.



But if you wait for her, only wait if there might be a chance that she would want to be together in the future, if she doesn't see that now i think you should let her go. Don't just wait for too long, that will make your life more miserable! and you dont want that!

From what i've heard you like her really much, just make sure she feels the same before you wait :)



best wishes to you!

Answer 3

If her "issues" are not that bad tell her u will love her regardless and u will work through them . In any other case find another girl

Answer 4

Oh man if you can't be with her than thats too bad