My ex deleted pics from social media?

Question

So my girlfriend of 4 years brokeup with me a little over 2 months ago. We have been talking on and off since then until recently when I have started no contact being she says she doesn't want to get back together because she sees me as more of a friend but she still loves me in a friendly way. I told her I didn't want to be friends because I can't imagine seeing her with another guy. Today she deleted like 15 pics from her social media. It was the most recent pictures. I did delete like 2 of my recent pictures of her at the beginning of our breakup. She still has all our pictures on social media its just like all the pics from 15 weeks ago and before are gone now.

My question is do you think she just deleted these recent pics because I did the same even before she deleted some today?
Her mom thinks we will get back together being she did leave me because I might have to move after i graduate college and she doesn't want to move.

I love this girl. I made sure my last text i sent to her 10 days ago told her "I know we can work this out if you wanted too and that i still loved and cared about her." I want her back but she needs to step up if she wants us to work.

I'm moving forward with my life but after 4 years it hurts we breakup over something like this but it is her choice.

Answer 1

No contact is just that: NO CONTACT. So if you're still playing social media games with deleting/adding photos and stuff? That's setting you back to square one.



Sounds like she's friend-zoning you. Your only counter is to go hard in the opposite direction, and refusing to be friends with her is a good start. Telling he "I can't stand the thought of seeing you with another guy" is NOT good start, because you're displaying neediness and jealousy (at a time when you should be displaying strength, independence, and indifference).



When you talk, who makes first contact? Is she still initiating phone calls, text messages? If so, you may have a foothold. Here's a pretty comprehensive quiz that will show you exactly what level of feelings she might still have for you:

http://backwithex.com/ex-back-quiz.php



Beyond this, you need to keep doing what you're doing MINUS the text messages/social media campaign. I know she's the one deleting photos, but your reaction should be *nothing*. Don't let her know any of this bothers you at all. You shouldn't even be speculating.



Best of luck bro!

Answer 2

Want to know how to get your ex back? Change yourself. Don't worry about changing other people, worry about changing yourself. Go to https://tr.im/ZRaF1



Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.



The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.



Which is why I say to you as my ex at the time said to me, the only thing you can do is change yourself. Work on yourself and improve on the person that you already are. Drop the negative things in your life that don't belong there and you will see all of your relationships start to take off to new heights.

Answer 3

Get oner yourself. Clearly, he did.