My boyfriend wants me to do a swingers video with him, are these ok to do ?

Question

My boyfriend wants to do a swingers video with him and other couples/men. He wants me to dress up as a nurse or french maid for the video as well. I want to know if the video would be ok to do ? Good or bad experiences ??

Answer 1

You ought to do it, I suppose it's a rather thrilling experience, it most surely is for most who'd watch it..Just get into it knowing that it could be out free on the net or at your local "porn-O-mart", I wouldn't care(but then I'm a guy) and I don't think any less of pornstars(kinda hold them in high regard actually)

Nurse and Maid costumes are hot, and a varied experience is the best experience. Please post a link on the net and notify us!!!

Answer 2

It's perfectly ok to do porn with your boyfriend. He obviously loves you very much, otherwise he would not ask you to participate in such a deeply personal and loving experience. Afterall, he asked YOU, not someone else. He's obviuously waited until the right woman, you, came along before trying something like this. Go ahead, have this first wonderful experience together. It matters not what your attire is. Dress in stockings, garter belt, pushup bra with exposed nipples, high heels, and a Kommandandt hat and do your best Charlotte Rampling imitation. Nothing should be off limits here. Be free to try anything he feels that would bring out your innermost beauty. These things may include, bi, anal, *******, interracial, bd/sm, bestiality, infantilism, needles, hot wax, suspension, fisting, spanking, caning, hair pulling, azz slapping, verbal abuse, humiliation, nipple pinching, nipple pulling, nipple rolling, tit squeezing, milking, electrical stimulation, shrimping, masturbation, piercing, tattooing, analingus, cunnilingus, airlingus, felching, shaving, cutting, branding, digiterotica, autoerotica, fellatio, snowballing, or any other activity he has so lovingly chosen just for you, his princess. There can be no bad experience here, go for it. We'll all be rooting for you as you take the first steps toward sexual freedom, something many people will never be able to do, but you will, and we'll all be better for it. And above all, let us know where we'll be able to share in your joy as you become a free woman.

Answer 3

Sure, someday when you have settled down and living a good life, a video comes back to haunt you and your family. Maybe you can get lucky and be one of the widest circulated sex vedios on the internet. Maybe you can loan someone a large amount of money to keep them from sending a copy to all your freinds and family. Sure if you dont mind being viewed as a SL*T. Oh and dont worry about self respect the video can take that away to... other than that Go for it, your only careless and stupid once in a while right?

Answer 4

Well it depends. Ask urself if u could trust ur boyfriend enough. I mean Ive met guys that have done that with their girlfriends and after a break up he ends up showing the video to their friends. So think about it really good. U're putting ur reputation at risk. If you know he's not that type of guy then, hey go ahead!

Answer 5

Swinging is a complicated element. For some it is a delusion that sounds stable interior the mattress room and fades as quickly as intercourse is over. those human beings ought to save it a delusion! For others it is something they think of approximately outdoors the mattress room and fairly decide for to aim. If it is delusion beware! If it a real want then i might propose shifting forward slowly with rules. as far as rules I propose which you and your better half take a seat and communicate over what's suitable and what isn't. once you have this talk 2 innovations: a million) No alcohol and a couple of) no longer for the duration of foreplay. Have this verbal exchange mutually as sober and outdoors the mattress room. in case you the two agree outdoors the mattress room and being sober it is something which you fairly decide for to pursue then communicate as i discussed already the guidelines, take time to discover the acceptable guy or woman or couple, defend yourselves bodily and emotionally, no interior sight human beings (defend your popularity). Get to comprehend the folk you have an interest in. devour dinner first. every physique who who tries to tension you into leaping into mattress are risky they are purely involved in intercourse and ought to care much less approximately your thoughts or your relationship as a pair. interior the previous we got here upon couples on swinger sites who have been exceedingly commonly used human beings. that they had families, jobs and a existence that they had to guard. those are this manner of individuals you ought to hunt for. they have something to lose and decide for discretion.

Answer 6

Are you a licensed nurse? What if you are not and someone gets hurt on the set and comes to you for help? Can you help them? I think the nursing outfit will make things confusing. I say you dress up like Dustin Hoffman in the 'Rain Man'. I can tell you know the part of being a complete idiot well.

Answer 7

In how many different languages can you say "NO!"? I hope in enough different dialects to get yourself out of his sight and out of your life. These things are never ever good for anything except the chance of blackmail or shame later in your life. Go the park and swing on the playground equipment, but never put your personal intimate life in such perverse circumstances. Get some counseling for your low self-esteem. You should never have even considered to these uncivilized scenes. Good luck. I feel like there is hope for you because you had the good sense to ask.

Answer 8

The only issue would be if you ever decide to become a political figure in the future, that video will resurface and ruin your chances. Or if this relationship ever ended, how would you like your new boyfriend to see it? All good questions that you need to think through. Good luck and have fun.

Answer 9

Check out my 360. and my hiddenYahoo group. I need time to think. Tell me, is this film for him? or is he trying to use you? Inversion and stings are the way to go if you are being used. Don't look at my site, especially if you are under IQ 79. Most of my guests have a hedonistic169 IQ by Mensa. Hedonists choose philosophical intellect over possessive destruction. All rules wilt, but don't lie to me. Tony in paradise.

Answer 10

It's totally up to you, we can not tell you what to do. this is a touchy issue. I mean, sounds fun but I don't know if you are strong enough (mentally) to be OK at the moment and after. Some people get very jealous, some embarrassed so... is up to you! just be sure this is what to want, and that you are willing to see your boyfriend doing "the dance" with somebody else...

Answer 11

There is no harm in making a video... Quite the contrary, it can be fun, and spice up the sex life!



If you meet with other swingers, make sure you practice safe sex to prevent the transmission of STDs...

Answer 12

He's your "boy" friend today, but what about tomorrow? What if that video (or a copy you don't know exists) ends up on the web? Want your friends and family to watch you? How about a job interview twenty years from now when the interviewer says "Don't I know you, you look familiar.................and then blushes and tells you the position has been filled." Unless your planning on a career in porno; I'd advise you not to get it on on film.

Answer 13

He must be gay and also he must want you to be seen as a whore. He doesn't respect you get out now. Tell him to find some other person who can be his sleaze. Your parents will end up seeing it and ruin your reputation you shouldn't have to ask is it good or bad If its questionable to you dont do it. My opinion is dont do it. You dont want to be known as a slut. People will talk so they will be talking and whispering behind your back plus it might end up in a porn shop

Is that what you want to deal with everytime you go to the store for people to find you easy and when you want to get serious with you no one is a least bit interested in you. Think about it.

Answer 14

I would suggest that you give this some real time to think about, understand what comes with the swinging action, not just videos but parties, three sums, groups and much more. If this turns you on, by all means go for it. REMEMBER SAFE SEX

Answer 15

Chances are, you'll regret doing it. What happens when you and your boyfriend break up? You've got to know he's going to show it to everyone and their brother? Would you be ok with that? Would you want your family seeing you in something like that?? Something tells me you wouldn't *since you have to ask such a question*...There's no thinking to it at all. Don't do it.

Answer 16

Don't do it. Because when you grow old and have a family of your own, I am sure you would regret it doing. Especially, if somehow a video leaks and went to public your children might see their mom doing a thing they won't be proud of.

Answer 17

Bad! Are you crazy? You will end up on some x-rated video store shelf. Unless they are planning on paying you big $$$$$, and even then I wouldn't advise it, Stay clear of that one! Find a new boyfriend honey! That one is scum!

Answer 18

First, ask yourself, if you broke up with your bf, married a great guy, had wonderful children and that video surfaced. Would you be happy? Then do it. If not, steer clear, these videos have a way of popping up

Answer 19

At least you'll be dressed. Or not? It's his way of gettting other women in his Harem. He is a jerk. Dump him now! What is he a movie producer or a pervert? Video is forever. One day it may come back to you.

Answer 20

do it only if your ok being video taped... cause that can get into the net for some freaks to check out. Make him get you drunk or something just to jazz it up... I hope you have fun!

Answer 21

Do it and you're open to blackmail for as long as you live, which might be a half century more.



And the more you achieve in life (elected to public office, for example), the more you will have to lose.



DON'T DO IT!

Answer 22

Interesting, if you feel comfortable with the video being used, seen, distributed by someone else

Answer 23

be sure its what you want to b/c it has ruin marriages and realationships.you need to have a safe word or something for when you start to feel like you need to slow down back out or whatever. its fun but really be sure its what you want. dont do it for him b/c its makes problems like they get the idea its ok to **** everyone they want to b/c you allow it. you have to set a boundary. be careful.

Answer 24

Obviously it's up to you. If you feel comfortable with it, do it. If you don't don't. The fact that you're even asking the question makes me think that you're not comfortable with the idea and are seeking validation.

Answer 25

Depends how far you want to go in the video. I would clearly define all aspects of the movie first and DO NOT GO PAST YOUR BOUNDARIES.

Answer 26

Have you ever heard the little story about Paris Hilton and her tape? If you are having to ask strangers if it is ok....you must be having doubts. When it doubt, just don't do it!

Answer 27

He could never have real love for u asking you to do something like that. A real man who cares about his woman will show her respect, love committment and all the good things that goes with a relationship.



He wants u to do it with other men.



Respect yourself and please my dear don't do it.

Answer 28

Do you remember Paris Hilton or Pam Anderson?



Men like smut videos, then they share it with all their friends into infinity!



Your choice, it may be hot! Or you may completely regret it!

Answer 29

Its a matter of what you like but it can be a very inhanceful experiance take it from me. Plus it can bring a sparkle in your relationship.

Answer 30

Never let anyone video tape you in the mix cause you could live to regret it one day.

Answer 31

That is the first step on the road to nowhere. You need a new boyfriend.

Answer 32

In my opinion, I think Its okay, just as long as no one will scatter them around. Cause that Might be an embarassing situation if that ever happens

Answer 33

just think what hwappens if we break up?



the video is fun to make, but the Internet is a big place

Answer 34

good or bad experience!you may know that from ur audience after the video been published,

Dont do it

Answer 35

Hey if you're looking for a good time, and your boyfriend doesn't mind passing you around to his friends...then go for it!

Answer 36

my wife and i have been making fun videos for years, they are a lot of fun, weve had singles couples =groups,, yes go on enjoy it and dont be shy , just think when you are old and wrinkly you can look back at them and be proud

Answer 37

Sure... go ahead. Everyone needs to do something they will regret for the rest of their lives.

Answer 38

good if you are in a relationship of pure trust and there are no jealousy issues bad if there is any little bit of jealousy in the relationship

Answer 39

no i do not recommend u do this video unless u plan on being a pornographic movie person. also once u do it other people will be watching u do porn, how about being blackmailed by someone?

Answer 40

these are ok if you want millions of others pearing at you and getting yourself a swop name reputation is that want you want then go right ahead

Answer 41

Nope that is a stupid thing to do dumb your useless boyfriend next he want you to be a prostitute

Answer 42

I don't think you should because then you will have to live with this. tell him you'll be the one taping with your clothes on and that;s as far as it will go.

Answer 43

DON'T DO THAT! You will regret for shore!It sounds like he only wants to use you!So don't let him do that!Guys are sometimes real jerks! (sorry guys,but that's true :))

Answer 44

You are an idiot if you do it. You may have children some day and would you want them to see these.

Think girl, think.

Answer 45

it depends on what your principles are. it's really up to you. i havent had any experience with it though. you shuld make this decision on your own though! good luck!

Answer 46

we swing but have only took pictures,you will never know unless you try,the thought never entered our mind yet

Answer 47

I'll see you on the internet

Answer 48

Only you could answer that one, myself personally, wouldn't do it.

But it's down to personal choice.

Answer 49

i think you dont have 2 do it. at the early you'll think it's agood experience.But someday, who would know?blackmail or something else.....think of it first.Dont rush.okay : )

Answer 50

I don't think that's a good idea you should really think it through

Answer 51

Wow... ur going out w/ a pervert! My advise: Break up w/ him!!!

Answer 52

i dont think you should do it, next thing it turns out to be bad

Answer 53

NO.... bad things will come of this..... you will have issues when this is over... trust me... do NOT do this...

Answer 54

no-one can tell u if it's good or wrong. it all depends on u

Answer 55

no, some day it will come back to haunt you

Answer 56

if you had to ask that question, then the answer is no.

Answer 57

get rid of him

Answer 58

No

Answer 59

No .. you must say that , don't thing for it.

Answer 60

Do it and post it!!

Answer 61

only if you are comfortable with it.

Answer 62

go for it... then send me a copy... :D

Answer 63

look at the pros and cons....

Answer 64

DO IT NOW!

Answer 65

sure its fine Have fun!!!!!!!!!!

Answer 66

i would not.

Answer 67

that is stupid. dont do it

Answer 68

whoa, i dunno, that how most men end up cheating