Question:
She has a crush on me?
anonymous
2009-11-12 22:13:49 UTC
Recently I met a girl she did things like:

1) She asked my friend whether I have a crush on any other girl.

2) She laughs at every joke I say. Even the worst ones.

3) I saw her staring at me quite a number of times.

4)Then she text messages all other boys with friendship messages. But never sent any such friendship message to me. Its is not like she doesn't text message we do a hell lot of chatting over text message but she never sent me any such friendship text message.

5) Lastly, once my friend asked her does she have any crush on any boy. She said 'no' while staring at me.

Yes, the first 3 points suggests she has a crush on me. But why she doesnt text message me any friendship message? And why she said she has no crush but why she stared at me while answering???

My question is does she have a crush on me but too shy to tell?
Eight answers:
Dave
2009-11-13 09:46:09 UTC
What you need to do is talk to her and see how she responds to you're words AND body language. Look for clusters of body language- clusters meaning different things going on at once (different non-verbal signals per se). IE- If her body language seems very open, loose, and relaxed when around you, that means that she's open to you. If she is fidgety around you and fulling around with things with her hands, then she's probably into you (and possibly actually nervous about whether you're into her or not). Look into her eyes- dilated pupils are a indicator of a woman's interest in someone or something. If she fulls with her hair a lot when near you or when talking to you that is definitely suggestive of her having an interest in you. If she maintains good and fairly long eye contact, that could mean she's into you. If she flirts with you, that could definitely mean that she's into you. If she responds well to your flirting, that might possibly mean that she's open to more, but her accompanying body language would be the telling point. A strong indicator is when she (unconsciously) opens her legs towards you without meaning it (that's an indicator of lust or sexual desire). It’s a classical Freudian opening symbol. A contrary sign to this is when she puts her legs together. If she touches you in any manner, this is almost always a good sign. If she bites or licks her lips when around you or when talking to you, that is suggestive of her being into you or literally wanting you. Women (and people in general too) communicate of such a deeper level (void of words) that often or not they'll tell you one thing with words YET their body language is suggestive of a totally different thing. It's kinda like people saying one thing and doing the completely opposite. What I'm telling you here is only the tip of the iceberg. Read "Body Language" by Julius Fast. Just learn to read body language and you'll always be able to tell whether a chick is into you.



also...

dude, she could be staring at you because you either look weird OR because she really is into you- hard to tell with that one. Also she could be laughing at all your jokes as to try to be polite and courteous to you as to not make you feel like a loser who can't tell funny jokes. If she sits back with her arms crossed together,she may be uncomfortable with her weight or she might be annoyed and might feel like NOT talking to you.
Speedy
2009-11-13 06:20:35 UTC
Perhaps she's waiting for you to make the first move some girls are like that its called being a lady(age doesn't matter in this case) Talk about being a dough-nut
trishul60
2009-11-13 06:19:53 UTC
Yes,but it looks as if she wants you to take the first step
andreaadvice
2009-11-13 06:19:01 UTC
definitely too shy! you're smart to pick up on all of this. which is what she wants coz i've been there and done that.

make a move :) if you like her of course..
sana
2009-11-13 11:42:36 UTC
kool...you got it right..she has a crush on you..but she wants YOU to make the first move..go..ask her out..if you like her too..
anonymous
2009-11-13 06:27:47 UTC
Ask her.







Please answer mine:

https://answersrip.com/question/index?qid=20091112210607AA841o2&r=w
anonymous
2009-11-13 06:17:30 UTC
You Can't See Me!
mona
2009-11-13 06:21:34 UTC
of course she has a crush on you.......ask her yourself


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