Should I take my girlfriend back?

Question

Yesterday my girlfriend broke up with me. She said that she felt trapped and couldn't take it any more. She made it perfectly clear that it was over and there was no hope of getting back together. However, at 1am the same night she called me saying I've made the biggest mistake of my life please forgive me. I can see why she broke up with me as I am quite a needy bf and am very protective but she broke my heart. Do I give her a second chance?

Answer 1

Do it. It just seems she needs room to breathe plus everyone deserves a second chance....if she does it again though I wouldn't

Answer 2

sleep on it and if you feel like you cant stand bein apart from her or tlkn to her than give your relationship a second chance..



so you know for sure tht you did everything you could to make it work, and try to backoff with the overprotecting. its alright to be protective but not Overprotective, cuz thtll drive anyone away.



be sure to let her know tht the grass wasnt so greener after all if she came back several hours after the break up and let her know to not take you for granted. or think tht she can pull stunts like this and expect you to take her back all the time. but dont do it in a harsh/mean way, just make sure she hears your heart and tht ur willing to make changes also to better ur relationship.



hope everything turns out great and works out for the two of you.

Answer 3

not with a click of the finger NO! if you said 'oh yeah sure' you're just showing her that she has you wrapped around her little finger - not good!. i'd say meet up with her and here her out, listen to what she has to say and make your own judgement from there. but i wouldnt make it easy for her if i were you - she'll become complacent with you and no one wants that. say things like 'oh i dont know, maybe. i have to think about it' no harm in keeping her waiting for a bit, just to remind her of how much she should be appreciating you. but to be fair, the needy thing isnt great, maybe you should work on trusting her just a little more, compromise and all that. hope i helped. x

Answer 4

If u want but me.... I wouldn't just because if that was the problem ... These kind of fight will happen over and over unless you change your self. Being needy and protective is bad but when you like someone n even love someone they have to love your flaws too n if u change urself.... Exactly you're changing yourself. I love my bf but he's so childish and stubborn and pics on me alot lol but I love his flaws because I love him ... So in the end it's you're choice but like you said she made it clear and if ur back together ur gonna have to change :/ good luck hun=]

Answer 5

IMO, yes & no.

It's great she realized that she messed up, but letting her back in so easy is going to make you even more vulnerable for it to happen again and again.

Give it some time, it's clear that BOTH of you have your share of problems that you need to work out before going back out again.

Answer 6

Honestly I think you both should sit down and talk and agree to a break. If she loves you she'll still be waiting for you when your ready. You don't need someone who's going to constanly break your heart!

Answer 7

Well maybe she was hoping to get with someone new, but the guy rejected her so now she's going back to you.