Can I try to text my ex boyfriend again or should I wait? HELP!?

Question

Ok so me and my ex bf broke up almost 4 months ago. We did call each other sometime and text. Then slowly we never contact each other nor we talk anymore in school. Sometimes he does stare at me in school and always come around the juice bar that im working.So yesterday I texted him first, well it was quite awkward at first but as we go with the flow.. We're enjoying our conversation. We texted since 6.30 until 11.30 but some messages he and I replied late haha anyways so do you think I can text him again today or I should wait? Do you think he'll text me first? He dump me Btw.

Answer 1

I'll put it to you simply: You're holding on to something that is over and has been over for 4 months. It doesn't matter whether he stares at you or comes around your juice bar, he DUMPED you, it's OVER in his head. Which means? It needs to be over in your's.

The thing where both of you cut off contact was the healthiest part of the break up. The thing is, it's ok to get in contact and be civil with your exes, but not like a month or a few weeks after you cut off contact. That's call being clingy. You're wishing that relationship was still going on or you're just lonely and want him back for that reason.

Point is: it's over and you're not doing him or yourself any favors by staying in contact. Someday down the line maybe you two will have grown apart enough to speak to each other on a platonic level, but now it's just too soon and too emotional.

To answer your question: don't text him and just let it die out again. He made it clear from his end that he doesn't want you when he dumped you. Now you gotta move on girl. There are plenty of fish in the sea and even though it doesn't seem like it, there are better men too.

Answer 2

I'd now not textual content him exceptionally if he is being a jerk face your high-quality pal and your ex have obviously no industry speaking they under no circumstances did but if you need to text him simply say hey if he dry texts you back stop texting and let him make the first move subsequent time

Answer 3

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Once you do that then you can start to worry about getting back together with your ex, other wise you will find that you are fighting about all the same things and getting no where. Do what it takes and I promise things will work out in your favor.



The funny thing is I came to the realization that I had to change a little too late. After I was kicked out and after I was about to lose the only things that truly mattered to me - her love. A funny thing happens when we truly love someone and lose them. We do what ever it takes to get them back. For me I had to drop bad habits that had caused not only our relationship to sour but practically every other relationship I had had in the past. Not only with women, but with friends, co-workers, family, you name it.



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Answer 4

He's your EX for a reason. No need to text him at all.

Answer 5

wait a bit.



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Answer 6

I wouldn't talk to him.