Question:
Why don't guys like me and does my skin have something to do with it?
2013-06-22 09:17:08 UTC
I am half black so I'm kind of a milky coffee color. I don't think I'm ugly and I don't have self-esteem issues (I mean I will soon if this keeps happening). I have modeled a few times and my close friends and family tell me I'm beautiful yet no guy ever talks to me ever. They always go for the white blonde and blue eyed girls. I'm not a mean person and I love being the class-clown/funny girl. I'm not very girly, like I love Halo and Batman is my idol. Is that why guys don't like me? I never go for the popular guy. I like smart cute quiet guys and I would never settle for dumb. Yet no guy ever flirts with me or talks to me or anything. All my white friends have great boyfriends while I'm just sitting here waiting for someone to talk to me. I have approached guys but they just ask me for advice on how to get another girl. I don't let people walk over me but I'm not overly confident either. I can't help but think my skin color makes me unapproachable. Why is that? I get A's and B's in school and people tell me I'm a lot of fun but no one is interested in me. Only douche bags and creepy guys in the dark corners yell gross crap at me while I walk down the street every once in a while. It's just not fair. So, why is it that my skin color makes me so unattractive to people? I am open to any advice. Thanks :)
Three answers:
2013-06-22 09:19:42 UTC
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You sound nice, but you might be sending out a desperate vibe. Stop trying so hard and life will happen.
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2013-06-25 04:27:54 UTC
No, it's not about your skin color. You said you love halo and your the class clown, so you might actually be scaring away the cute quiet guys. I wouldn't try changing yourself (that never turns out right), but maybe changing your perspective on some guys. Instead of going for guys that will only talk to you when you start the conversation, go for the class clown, so you have more in common. Ps your skin color sounds like what I've heard many people call "unfairly tan" It has nothing to do with your skin color.
Well, it's about time!
2013-06-22 16:23:17 UTC
it's nothing to do with your skin colour


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