I kinda like my brothers friend, what do i do?

Question

Last night my brother had a couple of his friends over and one of them i kinda like. He is super polite and has such a wonderful personality, and looks absolutly gorgeous. He has been friends with my brother since the start of high school, so over the years he has been around alot and stuff. Last night he was really nice to me and opened up conversations with me, and this was the first time i have really spoken ot him in depth and have gotten to know him. I am 17 and my brother and his friends are 20. I am just really wondering whether people have been in this situation before and how it eventuated and any other sort of opinions or anything. Thanks :)

Answer 1

I was in the exact same position about 2 months ago im 16 my brothers friend is 20 as well, ive know him for quite sometime and i had liked him for about as long as ive known him and i got sick of hiding my feelings for him so one night when my brothers mates were over i asked him to come up to my room so i could talk to him little did he know, he thought i wanted to discuss my brothers 21st lol. i told him i had feelings for him and he got really shy and said that he kinda likes me but wouldn't make anything of it unless he got my brothers approval. So i said to my brother casually the next day "would you hate me if i ever dated one of your close friends?" hes replied "well, yes and no es because iwouldn'tt want him hurting you because i'd lose him as a friend but morley no because i'd want you to be happy, why?" well ive kinda got a thing for levi" OH" ah aha well yeah ive been dating levi now ever since my brothers and i relationship hasn't changed a bit in fact i think its gotten stronger so i suggest you just tell him :D

you'll feel like a weights been lifted off yout shoulders

Answer 2

Is not a good idea to date him. One is because he is your brothers friend and should something go wrong between the pair of you their friendship might end because older brothers tend to be a bit protective of their younger sisters. Also it could happen in a different way for example: The two of you get together and really like each other but then for whatever reason things don't work out he might still come around and talk to your brother and hang out with your brother and may even have another girl to come with him...that would be bad if it happened but it might. Keep an open mind and really think about all the possibility's both good and bad

Answer 3

in case you think of you have a shot. Ask him if he feels an identical if he says no your thoughts would be harm yet atleast you dont might desire to deal including your buddy. If he says confident, then ask Sam if she is happy with that. She might desire to be because of the fact she is your buddy. there is not any element in coming near Sam first if it could or won't carry approximately something with the brother.

Answer 4

just tell you bro then next time you see him ask him out i mean when my mum was in yr 5 my dad was in yr 10 they did not know each other yet but still my brothers are only 4 so i have not been in this situation before but im sure many people have

Answer 5

well i fell for my mate's sister She was younger than me about the same as you two, we were together for 8 years and almost got married , it didn't work out but was nothing to do with siblings. But having said that it can be a little weird at first but nothing ventured nothing gained rite :-)

Answer 6

Well its seems like you really like him and it also seem like he likes you. I would get to know him more and See if he's really interested. And maybe talk with your brother about it see if he's cool with it I know if my Sis liked any of my older Brothers friends he would be pissed but my brother is over protective. But this guy sounds cool so get to know him and Try it.

Answer 7

look.. if hz.. ur brothers.. frnd.. thn.. i hope its more convinent.. dn.. any other case.. cz.. if u feel shy to tell hm.. thn.. from ur side ur bro will... But depends.. if u r free. wid ur bro..



and.. if not.. thn.. Go ahead... every thing.. is fair in love...

Answer 8

it's alright to date him

Answer 9

try to get his attention

Answer 10

enjoy his company... dont date

Answer 11

Hit it and quit it.

Answer 12

Ask him if he wants to get laid...