Very confusing situation right now...Is this considered cheating?

Question

So I'm single and I'm a freshman in college, and I'm in a VERY confusing situation right now. And I just feel like I'm in a lose-lose situation, and I'm going to end up being the bad guy with whatever choice I make.

(Girl #1)...so this girl has liked me alot...and for awhile, and we're close friends. She has told me before that she likes me. She's been talking to me alot more online and I'm thinking she may make a move on Valentine's Day, but she has never asked me on a date before.

(Girl #2) And at the same time, there's a girl who asked me to go on a date a couple days ago, and I was able to keep a conversation flowing well, and I wonder if she likes me. I'm thinking about asking her to a basketball game on Friday to find out more about my personal feelings for her.

So basically, I'm in a tough situation and thinking about what I should do:

1) Just not talk to either of them and think for a little while
2) Go on that date with girl #2 on Friday to find out more about my feelings for her, thus being able to find out more about how I feel about #1

I have a question...bc relationships are rocket science to me.

Is it considered cheating if you're single and just hanging out with different girls...kinda like dates, just not in a relationship. I do know that it's cheating if you're IN a relationship and you're seeing other girls.

Answer 1

You need to go with option 2. Option 1 is useless and gets you no where.



It isn't cheating, although you should decide soon which girl you really want to spend most of your time with.

Answer 2

It's not cheating unless you have made it clear to one girl that you are only dating her, so don't lie if questions get asked.



It is OK to date various people when your single, personally I try to avoid it because of this type of situation, however there's no harm in going out to watch a baseball game. The harm might come if the other girl makes a move on Valentines day and ends up being more than hanging out.



If nothing has been said to declare the solidity of your relationship, or you haven't agreed, it's all fair game. But maybe after this stick to just seeing one of the two girls for a while, until you can figure out if that one girl is the one you want to stick with for a while or not.



don't be a player, respect the game and the feelings of the girls involved, if you think they'll be hurt, though it's not cheating, it would be considerate and better for your reputation with those you know to put an end to the actions that would cause hurt.

Answer 3

Go with your 2nd option and hang out with #2. This way, you can make a better call on which girl is right for you. And no, its not cheating if your single and hanging out with different girls. But if it makes you feel better, you can always tell the girls what your doing.

Answer 4

dude it is not cheating but avoid it because if either of them find out then ur either will be alone or maybe if your lucky one will forgive you,



technically if your single then it is not cheating, so go on that date with girl number 2

Answer 5

option 2 you are not in a relationship with either yet so its not cheating

Answer 6

This is retarted.