How do i fix this relationship? I really need help !!!!?

Question

Here's the this i like her as in like like. She is currently a good friend of mine. I have done a little investigation. Is there anyway i could do to make her more than friend? Here's the copy of our conversation B is for boy and G is for Girl.

B
ok then i am going now. i still got the jet leg tty tomorrow
have fun at the party

G
still there?
thanxs

B
yes i am still here i am still talking to my causin
will be off as soon as all off

G
but I have something that I think we should talk about

B
what is it
am i in trouble?

G
no lol

B
ok than good thats a relieve
hit me

G
but oh well the thing is that latelly you are making plans with me like dating plans

B
no its not

G
and I am not interested in that, I like you as a friend but no more than that

B
i will tell u if it was
its just two friends hanging out
dont worry

G
well that´s what I thought but everyone seems to tell me that you are asking them around about how to get with me
so I was concern maybe you thought there was something between us
I really like you as a friend so please don´t take it in a wrong way

B
i dont its just a rumor they ask me about it and i always say firmly "no comment"
and so its all just a made up

G
remmeber what i said about being truthful

B
i am being truthful
i think its better if i explain in person
or through skype
i mean when they ask me i say "no comment" but they receive the message as if i approve information being true

G
no not really I mean if you say so then it´s fine I just needed to make sure you knew how I fell
feel so there will be no missunderstandings

B
i know how u feel, u dont have to explain it, u explained it well enough in the pasts

G
and the fact is coming to MY CITY* all the time and meeting up is good but making a lot of plans and everything just doesnt work with me

B
yeah i know, just a little plan usually

G
i dont wanna tell you what to do but also skipping school to come to goettingen wont help things

B
i am not skipping school
i have free periods

G
still, your parents dont know and lying to them feels weird espeically when i feel like involved in that crap

B
u r not, trust me they have no idea about u or anything.

G
right well we'll talk later cos i gotta go out now
so il tty
ttyl**
ok tty tommorow

B
good night

*censored for privacy

Answer 1

Well, she has already given u the answer..

She has told u not to have any expectations, she just want u as a friend and she DOESNT want to go beyond that.. Not that she's not READY to go for something more it says that she DOESNTwant to go more than that..

So, its better not to waste your time and your money having big expectations because you will only end up loosing her, not only as a girlfriend bt also as a good female friend...

Answer 2

You poor fellow in the friendzone. You can be honest and ask her out on a date. If she says no then, find someone else and just appreciate her friendship. If she doesn't want to be your friend anymore because you asked her out, then she isn't really that good of a friend anyway.



Just my opinion, but I am a guy too.

Answer 3

Is it just me or she really sounds rude ? =/

I dont think u shud waste time on her .. Seriously