How Do I Make My Ex Call Me. Wanting To Patch Things Up. Without Me Calling him.?

Question

My boyfriend sends me a friend request over myspace. And i approved it. But then he sends me a picture comment. And i never replyed back. So then a couple of hours later. He sends me a message saying. So This is how you treating me. Then i reply back by saying. What do you mean. Your the Jack ***. You ****** up not me. Its your lost. I only give you what you give me in return. Then he replys back by saying what Ever. Then he logged off. But im still mad at him because he stood me up on July 4. And never called me back to tell me why. And when I went up to his summer school program. He tried to act like he didn't see me. So i think he's trying to act like the victim so i can feel sorry. But i want him to call me to see whats up. And i wanna know what was going through his head after i left him that message. But i really wanna know what can i do to make him call me. Or send me another message over myspace. Without me having to do it myself.

Answer 1

Babes, don't think you are doing the wrong thing.. because you are doing exactly what your suppose to do ...



My ex girlfriend broke up with me for no reason last month .. and she constantly keeps messaging me, and texting me, and I don't reply back and she whines when i don't saying "Why arent u talking to me.." and I just keep silent.. she lost something great, and it was her choice .. she also commented my pictures yesterday..and expected a comment back ... nope ..



Don't fall for his trap .. he's trying to make you come running back to him.. so he can "have his cake and eat it too."



Just keep ignoring him .. he's going to notice your not giving him no attention and come running back ...



Exactly what my ex is doing now ..



Good Luck and take care. =)

Answer 2

Send the message through a mutual acquaintance.

Answer 3

you don't make him do anything.



if you suddenly have developed a desire to make up and try again, don't waste time with myspace messages and stupid, juvenile actions and swearing.



call him. tell him you are sorry for your actions and that you felt slighted that he stood you up on the 4th of July.



tell him that you miss him and would like to try again.

waiting for him to make the first move is a childish game that will leave you the loser.

Answer 4

Send him flowers at work. He will then have to call you because all the girls at work will make sure of it.

Answer 5

im not trying to sound bitchy or anything but for one, you guys need to grow up. if you are gonna talk over myspace and not face to face, you both have more growing up, before you want to be together.

Answer 6

you guys are not together anymore he does not have to call you at all and you can not make someone call you either thats just plain crazy talk

Answer 7

send him an anonymus gift that will make him think of/miss you