Question:
What does "whatever happens happens" mean for where you stand with someone you like?
Vada M
2011-02-04 02:17:41 UTC
A friend and I ended up kissing, holding hands, cuddling and stuff and then after a few days slept together. He said he has feelings for me and really likes me and asked me how I felt, I said the same but we both agreed not to force anything and whatever happens happens... but Im not sure what that means exactly, if I wana kiss him can I? Im terrible at reading signs. He phoned me alot the first few weeks and text me and kept asking me to get credit to message him, I eventually did and he doesnt reply... Im a little worried he doesnt like me anymore or want anything... just cause I dont want to be thinking about him if hes not thinking of me!
I got majorly screwed over by a guy of over 2 years, and I swore to myself I would never have feelings for anyone again, so if I ever do, I run away. But Im not doing that now and keep thinking I should.
Eight answers:
actor22
2011-02-04 02:24:58 UTC
It means do what you think best...for yourself and/or for the relationship. Stop this nonsense of messaging and texting and call the guy. TALK to him. It's the only way you're ever gonna find out whether you waited foo long and he's lost interest, or if you've still got a chance.
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2015-08-16 18:27:22 UTC
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What does "whatever happens happens" mean for where you stand with someone you like?

A friend and I ended up kissing, holding hands, cuddling and stuff and then after a few days slept together. He said he has feelings for me and really likes me and asked me how I felt, I said the same but we both agreed not to force anything and whatever happens happens... but Im not sure what that...
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2016-10-03 12:49:29 UTC
Whatever Happens Happens
?
2016-03-13 12:55:09 UTC
It means that the only way to really enjoy life and make sense of it is to not make sense of it at all, but to release the infinity of the human experience. It recommends to become completely unfeeling to test if you will be able to accept the sensation of complete nothingness. It explains that even if you do this, the world will always revert to "drama", or the act of participating in the human experience, so it will never be a permanent solution to remove yourself from reality. Also, laughter and chocolate are pretty cool.
anonymous
2011-02-04 02:27:48 UTC
Just be straight with him because he is not being a man. Say "listen, I'm not interested in whatever happens happens rubbish, either we are together or not, so I wanna be together, if you do then we are couple, if you don't then let me know as I'm not going to play any games as I don't have time for it
?
2011-02-04 02:21:22 UTC
It means either make a move and start a relationship or just let it go and not make a big deal out of it
Thomas
2014-12-11 15:49:46 UTC
it means the ***** watches Cowboy Bebop
anonymous
2011-02-04 02:33:00 UTC
he got wat he wanted from u which was sleeping with u. so he does not want u any more. so he not replying is a sign that he is not just that into u any more


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