A girl said I'm nice?

Question

This girl that I've hung out with only a couple times said that I'm nice, and told all her friends that I'm the nicest guy ever. I never made a move on her because she has a boyfriend too. What does this mean? why would she tell all of her friends in front of me that I'm the "nicest guy she's ever meet"? Should I act a little more like a jerk? I consider myself a good looking guy, girls have said that I was cute and I've had a couple girlfriends, but am I being too nice?

Answer 1

no...jus be regular and when she breaks up u will get a new gf

Answer 2

Definately don't act like a jerk. You'll just disappoint her. If she said, "you're nice," that's a great compliment, but don't read too much into it. However, if she said you're "the nicest guy she's ever met," that's much different. Think about it, she has a boyfriend, but she just classified you as the nicest guy she's ever met. If that's what she said, I think she's trying to tell you something. Take it from a female, don't screw it up by trying some jackass move on her. Simply accept the compliment, tell her that it means a lot to you that she would think that about you, and then try giving her an equal compliment.

Answer 3

No! Girls love nice guys!..well sometimes I guess girls just want to be friends with "the nicest guy they've every met"..but once she's single then you could make a move or something and spend time together, see what happens!..She probably really likes you =] But don't be a jerk because if you're naturally a nice guy you might be too much of a jerk and say something really stupid!..So just be yourself :-)

Answer 4

No, you shouldn't act more like a jerk. Maybe you are the nicest guy she's ever met. She my really feel this way. That does not necessarily mean that she wants more then a friendship. No one can ever be too nice.

Answer 5

nice means you're no threat to her, her boyfriend or her friends. You might as well be a gay friend because you won't see any action being the nice guy.



And no, don't be a jerk. Be independent. do your own thing. Talk to her friends. Have an opinion and back it up. The next time any girl says that you are nice, just respond that she's being kind and your last girlfriend (who was hot) didn't think so because you were unaffectionate and aggressive. Allude to a sexual example to make sure they understand that you're not the gay friend.



Regards

Answer 6

My best friend is a girl, and she has a boyfriend, too. We go on walks together, and we talk a lot about personal stuff. We even tell each other we love each other. But that's where it ends. We're just genuine friends who care really deeply about each other. There's no romantic connection. And to her, I'm the nicest guy she's ever met, too. I don't even think about dating her, and we're quite straight and honest with each other when it comes to how close we are. It's ok to be a nice guy. As long as she doesn't think you want more.

Answer 7

Just be ur self she paid u a compliment..nice guys may not always get the girls in the beginning but once they figure out the jerks only hurt them they go right back to the nice guys :)

Answer 8

Oh please don't act like a jerk. Girls really do like nice guys, it just takes them a while to realize it. I'm writing an article about this for my newspaper at school...please don't be a jerk. You will fin a girl that likes nice guys and she probably really meant that you were nice. It's nothing to be ashamed of. It's wonderful! The world needs more nice guys. I love nice guys. Don't be jerk just to get a girl that won't appreciate you for who you are. Be nice and get a girl who likes you for being the nice guy you are. Don't change your ways.

Answer 9

A girl likes when a guy is nice so of course she's going to tell her friends. At least it's not that you're too nice. Just be yourself and Just be there and be a friend, who knows one day it could lead to more.

Answer 10

There is no such thing as too nice until it gets to the point that people think it is a weakness of yours. She justs probably thinks your a nice guy and you should not worry that you are not being too nice. Most girls like nice guys.

Answer 11

Dont be a jerk!



Its great to be a nice guy. She's letting her friends know that your nice because she really appreciates that in you. You'd probably be the first she turns to in the event that the bf and her break up.

Answer 12

FIRST OF CALM DOWN OK! AND SHE TOLD ALL OF HER FRIENDS THAT U-R- NICE BECAUSE TO HER MAYBE U-R-SO WHAT IS WRONG WITH THAT, WHAT R-U-GETTING ALL EXCITED ABOUT WHAT SOMEONE CAN'T SAY SOMETHING NICE ABOUT U-N-TELL HER FRIENDS AS WELL MAN GET A GRIP OK!

OK!GIRLS HAVE SAID U-R- CUTE LIKE UR THE FIRST GUY GIRLS HAVE SAID THAT ABOUT N-U- HAVE HAD A FEW GIRLFRIENDS SO HAVE I THAT DOES NOT MEAN I GET BESIDE MYSELF SAYING I'M A GOOD LOOKING GUY AND LET WHAT GIRLS SAY ABOUT YOU MAKE UR HEAD TO BIG TO GET THROUGH THE DOOR OK ,COME BACK DOWN TO EARTH ALRIGHT.

THE GIRL GAVE U A NICE COMPLIMENT TAKE IT FOR WHAT IT IS WORTH A COMPLIMENT SHE DID NOT ASK U TO MARRY HER SO CHILL AND KEEP MOVING ON OK GEE!!

Answer 13

act like yourself, if you're naturally nice then stay that way. don't be a jerk, when girls go out with too many jerks, they'll realize that they want a nice guy.



what shes doing is giving you hints, hints that if she does someday break up with her bf, your her first choice.



though the truth is most girls say they like nice guys but they actually really like jerks deep inside. but maybe someday the girls that actually like nice guys and really mean it will fall for you.

Answer 14

Don't be a jerk. You'll screw up everything... Just continue being nice. Lots of girls like nice guys. =]

Answer 15

she probably does think you are nice, but only likes you as a friend =/ dont act like a jerk at all that will just ruin everything. i would wait it out and see what happens.

Answer 16

When a woman says you are nice, it means she thinks you have no sex organs like Casper the Friendly Ghost.

Answer 17

you should be yourself. if you're acting nice - you should stop and be who you are, so you wouldnt feel so guilty if someone said you were something, that you're not deep within.

:)

maybe she was just complimenting you - why does it bother you.

you should be proud of yourself.

how many times does a girl come across a nice guy? - not many times... so she is just shocked at your sincerity



kendi

;')

Answer 18

Just be yourself. If you have a nice personality people will say nice things about you no matter who it is or where they stand.

Answer 19

That mean you can walk her dog anytime when she wants to ball someone. Ha ha ha. When a woman tells me I'm nice, I'm outta there.

Answer 20

A girl saying you are nice is only okay if she says it after having sex with you.

Answer 21

no! offcourse not! girls love nice guys! you'll get more girls being nice then being a jerk.

Answer 22

Nice does not mean cute...get over yourself.

Answer 23

Dude, she has a boyfriend.. she just means your nice.. move on

Answer 24

That means you're quite gay (lol). But dont stop being nice, it would'nt work in the end.

Answer 25

Slow down now it was just a compliment.

Answer 26

did she say " awwwwww ur soooooo nice" or " your so.....................nice? the ffirst 1 would be a good thing but don't make a move on her until she has broken up w/ her current bf.

Answer 27

no there are enought jerks out there dont be a jerk . She is just saying your nice hello compliment take it and say thanks

Answer 28

Most girls I know dont date nice....be more sassy with her

Answer 29

no your not being to nice just stay the way you are









i sneezed

Answer 30

Maybe, try not not act like you are trying to please everyone too eagerly.... Just relax, sit back and let things come to you at your own pace...

Answer 31

for christs sake its a compliment! she likes that your nice. Jesus!

Answer 32

Do not take this serious.she was just joking.

Answer 33

no, stay nice